Attending Midnight Mass with Small Children

One of the most treasured and hallowed moments during Christmas-time is the attending of Midnight Mass services. Although this is predominantly a Catholic tradition, a whole host of denominations provides their own version of the service. While this can be a very solemn and beautiful service that you will want your children to attend so as to begin to infuse them with religious traditions beyond the man in the red and white suit, there are a few tips that can be followed to ensure that your children get the most out of the service and that the service is not disrupted for anyone else.

Traditionally, Midnight Mass takes place on Christmas Eve to celebrate the coming of Christmas and the birth of Christ in its first moments. Although there are major differences it can begin with choirs and the singing of hymns and carols. There will be holy passages read and sermons along with a Eucharist or communion as well. Many of the regular Catholic ceremonies such as the responsive readings and liturgies will take place and in some congregations, small Christmas based plays or live nativities will be held.

The first thing to know about Midnight Mass and how to attend with children is finding out when the event actually begins. Despite its name, Midnight Mass often begins much earlier and runs through midnight and beyond. 10:00 PM is a common starting time but some churches may begin their services as early as 7:00 PM. Call the church before-hand to make sure you have the times right.

No matter what time the Mass begins, you will want to arrive at least one hour early. This will ensure that you will all get seats. As the night wears on, the children will get cranky if they must remain standing.

Prepare your small children beforehand. Explain to them how much fun they will have and how it is such a big and important event. If they are at the proper age, they can be instilled with delight at the fact they will get to stay up so late after their bedtime.

You may want to take a small blanket or pillow in case the children nod off of their own accord. This is only natural and they should not be awakened during the Mass no matter how important you think it is for them. They will have plenty of years yet to enjoy the ceremony. The grand idea here is that you don't want to disturb anyone else around you.

For very small children, you can bring along some quiet toys or books that will keep their attention should it wander from the presentation. A couple of crayons of different color can also work wonders.

Try to see that your children get a nap sometime during the day. This will help them to stay awake and attentive later in the evening. This should preferably be in the later afternoon as the closer you get to midnight, the more likely they will not remain awake for long.

Always bring some sort of snack and beverage. Nothing messy, of course, but something to hold attention and keep them happy and free of crying. Water and juice are also almost a necessity.

By following these few guidelines you can help to ensure an enjoyable and rewarding Midnight Mass for yourself, your children, and the entire congregation.