Attention All Men: Tips to Buying Sexy Lingerie for Her

Deciding on a gift for your wife or girlfriend isn't always an easy feat. Deciding to get her sexy lingerie can make things even more complicated, but the good news is, there is hope! You don't want her to hate it, and give her the wrong impression about your intentions; you want her to love your gift so much you'll get to be the second person to unwrap sexy lingerie that day! With the right advice, you can pick out the perfect lingerie for the one you love, and with any luck, she may even love it too!

The first thing you need to bear in mind when setting out to purchase sexy lingerie is that it's not for you. You need to think about the style that the woman you are buying for usually sports, and make sure that the lingerie you pick out is along those same lines. Make sure the lingerie is in a color that you've often seen her in as well. If the sexy lingerie you're looking at is not something you can picture her buying or wearing herself, chances are, she won't like it.

Another important thing to keep in mind when shopping for sexy lingerie is that you should never try to guess your woman's size. When it comes making a woman feel uncomfortable, or even making her feel hurt or angry, buying her sexy lingerie in the size that she was a year ago, before she put on a little weight, is a sure way to do so. Unfortunately, sizing in the lingerie department isn't as simple as small, medium, large. It's actually a spread of numbers followed by letters from A to JJ, and that's just for the top half.

The best way to determine the size of your misses is to dig through that top drawer of hers. Look for bras or panties that you know are fairly new (to avoid the previously mentioned problem of weight gain), and write down the sizes that are on the inside of the lingerie. Another hint to look for when perusing her skivvies is common colors or styles. A visual aid will help you when it comes to the actual shopping. By the way, you should be ravaging her underwear drawer after she's left the house; not while she's still there. And you should also put everything back exactly how you found it, trust me, she'll notice!

So after you've done all you're detective work and taken all your notes, you may then proceed to the mall, or shop online. Keep in mind you're shopping for sexy lingerie, so you should avoid any labels that contain the words "control", or "reduce". Buying her something like this would not be sexy, and would most likely give her the impression that you think she's overweight, or has areas she needs to work on. And I'm sure that's not the type of gift you had in mind to give her.

Don't be afraid to ask the sales women at the mall for some help or advice. They're used to it are usually more than willing to help you out. If you choose to shop online, check out their specials or commonly purchased items, as they're usually a good indication of what's popular, and in most cases are a safe bet.

Last but not least, keep the receipt. If all else fails, and you tried your best, at least she can return it and get something else. If she feels like you made a genuine effort she won't be mad, and she'll be pleased with the thought and consideration you put into getting her the gift of sexy lingerie.