Attracting Women - Just How Important is Your Appearance?

A lot of guys get all in a tizzy about their looks when it comes to getting the girls. Everybody seems to think that it's all a girl is looking at, and the only thing that is going to have any impact on how she reacts to your approach. But is your appearance really that blasted important?

NO!

Guys who aren't exactly gifted in the looks department usually obsess, thinking that they're not anywhere near good enough looking to attract quality women...they obsess so MUCH about it that they fall into one of two categories: either they drive themselves so crazy about it that they just give up and don't even bother trying to get over it, or they try too hard and end up acting like narcisists, so consumed with their looks that they don't have TIME for dates..not to mention just look cheap and shallow.

I mean, don't get me wrong here, it doesn't hurt to look your best...but look again: look YOUR best. You don't have to be Brad Pitt or Orlando Bloom. Be a well-kempt you. Looks are a big part of first impressions, yes...but they're not the win-all, lose-all when it comes to budding relationships.

Surveys have been conducted by every feasible source imaginable, everybody wants to know what women find attractive...and while the top listings will interest you, the bottom is a lot more interesting. Almost every survey has come back saying that looks aren't any higher than number 8 on the top 10!

What does this mean? Sure, looks are a bit of a factor. HOWEVER, you don't need to go insane obsessing over your appearance. It's just not necessary. Granted, girls like a "cute" guy...guys like cute girls, it's how things run. BUT, in the real world, there isn't a Pierce Brosnan on every corner, and yet everybody seems to find someone just fine! Take it as a hint. You CAN get girls, even if you're not the most handsome guy in the world.

All you have to do is just work with what you have. As far as the outside goes, just keep yourself in decent shape. Go ahead and work on that acne. Comb your hair and brush your teeth. Shave. Dress well. Clean out your ears. But don't obsess over your looks, and certainly don't let fear of rejection hinder your progress. The best that looks can do is unlock the door. It takes conversational skills and a decent personality to open that door and walk through. A good sense of humor helps too.

So stop worrying so much, guys! Just relax, do what you can to keep yourself in decent shape, and never let your fears of inadequacy and rejection hold you back! The most important thing I want you to take from reading this article is the knowledge that you, yes you, have everything you need to get the girl of your dreams. All you gotta know is how to use it!