Often we blame the hair stylist involved when the costly monstrosity -deemed our coiffure - requires a serious fix, wig or hat to be livable. Unfortunately, however, many women share at least partial blame for these less than satisfactory results.
With a little homework, good communication, reasonable timing and expectations, you can increase the odds in obtaining the hairstyle you covet.
Know Thy Stylist
The average hairstylist is competent and a subset excel in the profession but remember that some stylists graduated at the bottom of their class, some lack experience and a few care little about reputation. A few minutes of inquiry can ward off a pending hair disaster.
Find out more about the stylist's credentials and experience before committing to an appointment. Some questions to ask include:
- How long has the stylist worked professionally
- Does s/he have much experience working with your hair type
- How long has s/he been employed at the salon
- How much notice is needed to book an appointment
Note, if the stylist seems to have an open schedule 24/7, investigate further as to why s/he does not have a following.
Booking a Service Friendly Appointment
One way to avoid a bad haircut is simple timing. Just as a favored restaurant can fail to deliver the service a client expects, such is often the case with an overworked, overbooked stylist.
Granted, working women have limited hours to attend to their tresses. When possible schedule salon appointments during non-prime times (weekday afternoons generally) and book hours, not minutes, before closing time.
Define Your Hairstyle Goals
With few exceptions, do not leave give the hairstylist a free pass to transform your looks. Unless you have both the money and access to a proven makeover professional, the results are often disappointing.
Determine the must-haves for your optimal haircut in advance including hair length and one that fits the time constraints available to style and maintain a look.
When aiming for a radical change, try a virtual makeover first (online or in the salon) and/or seek input from friends and loved ones on the proposed new hairdo. Optimally, bring a digital or hard copy image of the desired hairstyle to the salon to avoid ambiguity as well.
Avoid Common Communication Mistakes
- Identify or remind the stylist of problem areas (e.g. cowlicks) especially those camouflaged by the current style.
-Talk in specifics. Rather than just say, "I want a trim," provide a measurement of how much hair you are willing to part with, which may vary from the front to the back of the head.
- Ask the hair stylist questions, elicit their opinion and assess the beauty professional's interest, experience and attitude.
If you encounter red flags or signs that the hairstylist really isn't listening, don't risk a bad haircut. Instead, ask for another stylist or excuse yourself during the consultation process (tipping optional).
Lastly, the beauty industry is like any other business whereas it includes professionals of various proficiencies. Some men and women should never wield scissors on anything organic, period. These tips can help you avoid those individuals and other hairstyle nightmares.
Published by Donna Porter
Writer / Journalist -- A Yahoo News! Contributor Donna began her writing and internet career in 1995 in the health industry and became an early dot-com entrepreneur soon after. Masters certified in Internet... View profile
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12 Comments
Post a CommentAlways ask questions, I say. And show the hair dresser what you want rather than telling them. If you stay on top of stuff, then there's less change something will go wrong.
My wife often grumbles about hair stylists. Once in a dozen she finds someone she likes, who then proceeds to break ties at her current firm and disappears - from hair to eternity! But the photo part is essential for her. She doesn't like trendy styles, but wants a more classic look.
I've had some bad experiences in the past, which is why it takes a lot for me to trust hairdressers. I have very thick, naturally curly hair and some hairdressers I've been to just had no idea how to manage my hair. I came out of one salon looking like I'd just been electrocuted after the hairdresser blow dried my hair! My husband likes to go to the same barber every time. She knows how to manage his hair really well and he always asks for her.
Sophie
I am such a control freak when I get my hair cut that the turn-out can only be my own fault if it's awful..ha ha...luckily my aunt it a great hair stylist and I can trust her to give me a great style while I read a magazine the whole time... :)
Excellent article. I recently got a new style from a new stylist suggested by a friend. I am very pleased with my new style and am receiving complements often. Another tip is to go for a style that your hair is suitable for. I finally gave in to my straight hair and it is so much easier to tame now.
Due to medications I have to take, 2/3 of my ultra-thick and coarse hair has turned wavy, while the top 1/3 remains bone straight. I have found a hairdresser has to cut my hair a minimum of three times before having a clue. And he or she has to be unafraid to thin it. Good piece.
I quit going to stylists in 1980. I asked for a bob each time and each time came out with hair that looked like it belonged on a televangelist's wife. (Since I wanted to get rid of layered hair, it took me forever to let it grow to try another time.) Each time I also tipped the stylist....grrrr. Finally, I found cutting it myself was just as easy. I've cut my own hair ever since then.
I go in quite clear what I want but it isn't always what I get.
@Carly "Some men and women should never wield scissors on anything organic, period," applies here. I've been on the wrong side of the chair myself. @Pat, entertaining anecdote -- Some men are quite casual about their hair, some are particular to a fault, though.
Good information. We have so few stylists to choose from around here that if we find one who does a pretty good job, we try to stay with them. I've used the same one for almost 20 years. I cut my dad's hair for the last 30 years of his life, although I'm not trained. He always said there's not but 3 days difference in a good hair cut and a bad one, so we got along okay.