Bachelor Parties From the Perspective of a Nude Strip Club Security Guard
This is a Must-Read for Engaged Ladies
Back some years ago, I worked as a "security specialist" at a nude strip club. I've seen these kinds of things with my own eyes ladies. Not all of them but many a good man has fallen when faced with a naked, gorgeous woman who's rubbing her perfect body all over him.
The Pros: There aren't really ANY as far as the relationship is concerned. But they do represent a male camaraderie that displays the bachelor's last chance to go out and do the "single thing" with the guys. And that kind of thing can be quite fun for the guy. (and the other attendees of the party).
The Cons:
Ladies: Do you honestly want your man at a strip club with his buddies (who are very capable of keeping secrets) with drink flowing and BEAUTIFUL naked women rubbing all over him? Now not all strippers are prostitutes but prostitution in strip clubs is not unusual at all.
Most strip clubs work like this. The stripper goes up on the stage and performs on the pole. At that time guys can stuff bills in her g-string and that's about as far as it goes. After she finishes her performance, the stripper will go around to every guy in the bar for tips. For these tips, she usually will do something like ride the mans knee with her chest in his face. Some will allow a bit of touching but it usually doesn't go too far. Now perhaps your man isn't the type to spend alot of extra money so he's not a big tipper. But, you see this is his BACHELOR PARTY so it's not likely that HE'LL have to pay for much anyway. Then there are back rooms at most strip clubs where the guys can pay a fee for a "one on one lap dance". These rooms are private usually with a guy like me standing within earshot in case something gets out of hand.
Now MOST clubs have a "don't ask don't tell" policy for these private rooms meaning if the stripper decides to do anything "extra special" for the man in that room for extra money, it's up to her but the club doesn't want to know about it. The fee usually runs about $20. The stripper club gets $10 and the club gets $10.
Now here's a common scenario and one I've seen a few times. Joe is at his bachelor party. He's got 12 of his closest friends there. The club is alcohol free but you can bring your own. All the guys load up the car with all sorts of beer and liquor and bring it in with them. The first 30 min or so, everything is pretty tame. Then that one crazy buddy that your man has makes a suggestion. "Hey guys, let's chip in and buy Joe a one on one". So everyone is pretty drunk so they're giving a bit more than they usually have.
Then crazy buddy walks up to this fine stripper, pointing at Joe the bachelor saying that this is his bachelor party and hands the stripper a wad of bills totaling about $210 and Mike's gold chain and he tells the stripper to take Joe into the one on one room and "Rock his World". Now that figure of $210 is NOT exaggerated at all. So this very hot naked lady takes your beloved Joe into the one on one room. Now not all strippers are prostitutes but what about this one? Is she? They go in the room and come back out about 30 min later. Joe just smiles and says he "had fun". That could mean anything. He tells no details. Now are you comfortable and confident that nothing happened and she didn't really do him any extra favors in that private room?
Sure, she may have just rode his knee for 30 min and not let him touch her. But can you be SURE? And even if you do trust your man completely, MANY guys (not all) if they're in a situation where they KNOW that you won't find out and nothing can be proved, many do things they wouldn't normally do.
Bachelor parties can easily go wrong. Not all do but it's a big risk and it should be well thought out before doing.
Published by Karl Withakay
Karl is a full time 43 y/o Singer/guitarist/songwriter. He is also a self proclaimed computer geek. He builds, fixes and modifies computers. He is a US Navy, Gulf War Vet. and has worked as a CNA, a Parame... View profile
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13 Comments
Post a Commentyeasure...you sound dumb. You sound like that controlling/crazy girlfriend from the hangover (I won't let my man go to a strip club). A relationship is about trust. You can't control what the other person does because it just draws them away. Besides strip clubs make MOST normal (ie non perverted) men that I know actually want to go home and get busy with their girlfriend and see her do some moves.
Why focus on female strippers and male patrons alone? Of course it goes on! Why not talk about what goes on with male strippers and females patrons too? When that stuff goes on with male strippers/female patrons it happens right out in the open! When it's tame there's lots of groping, stroking and jerking. When it get's out of control lot's of other things go on...and then it's all chalked up as the women "just having fun", but the men are the pigs. These things are bad all around for married or engaged people. It isn't a matter of trust. No matter how much you trust a loved one, you don't want them tempted like that because no matter what, if you're not there, you DON'T know what happened. If you are engaged and planning bachelor/bachelorette parties do yourself a favor and go with the new trend. Go jack and jill so you can be comfortable with the evening.
I am totally against those kinds of bachellor's and bachelorette parties. You never know what may happen... he or she could end up having sex with a stripper. I think the best thing is having like a bachellor/bachelorette's party together with your friends
strippers male or femasles get no respect
at all. you get laugh at by everyone in that area even get rape by a stalker
this is a true fact?
get a real job please.
You have to get a grip yeahsure. Some guy must have really crapped on you at some time in your life.
Stripper are dirty whores! They do not respect their bodies. Men who go to strip clubs have no class. If my man went to a strip club while we were together I would dump his sorry butt so fast. How dare he cheat on me with so other women who is grinding on his lap! How dare he not value me!!!!!!
Very brave to reveal some behind the scenes information! These are the kind of things that women need to hear straight from the horse's mouth, so to speak. My male friends have also mentioned that strippers can be "extra-friendly" for the right price, so I believe every word!
I am getting married soon and my FH says he does NOT want strippers. I fear that there will be strippers because he is the first of his friends to be getting married and that the other guys will see it as a way for them to have a good time.(if you know what i mean) I just feel horrible about the idea of strippers. I know that if I was to get down ONLY to a g-string and sit on some mans lap my FH would go insane. I just hope that on my wedding day I can look at him without being worried that I'm about to marry a man who just had naked women all over him the night before.
I appreciate hearing this from a pros perspective. I have been to several strip clubs and have often wondered what goes on in the "private" rooms. Having a first hand education of strip clubs and reading this articles "behind the scenes" info has affirmed my gut feeling about strip clubs - I won't be feeling guilty anymore when I tell my boyfreind that I dissaprove!
i let my boyfriend have his bachelor party, i even hepled him pick out the hotel room! i was promised that there was going to be no women in that room, none at all. of course i was lied to, there was drinking and one of the guys brought his girl in the room, added to the fact that there was dirty magazines in there too...it has painted a real bad picture in to my mind even now that it has been 5 month's later. as a warning to all girls getting married MAKE SURE of what is going to happen and do all you can to make sure that's all that happens because it almost cost me my marriage!