Bachelorette Deanna Pappas: Jesse Rates #1

Hannah
Bachelorette Deanna Pappas: Jesse Rates #1

Although Jason is the popular pick, Jesse may be the best bet...

I just finished reading V. Miller's article on the last segment of the bachelorette and felt compelled to write one myself. By the way the article was well written, and covered the information nicely. I read several of the comments on the article, and found Jason to be the popular pick. Well, Jesse is my choice, and I'd like to tell you why!

Although I do agree that both are equal in the nice guy department, and both are equally good looking in their own way, I still find Jesse the winner. Jesse will most definitely keep a woman excited and interested through a lifetime. Looking back on all the episodes, except for the last one, I found Jason to be quite monotone in his personality, in other words, a little boring. It was only in the last episode I saw Jason show some kind of enjoyment of life. When two people plan on spending many years together, there is nothing worse then becoming bored with a person. I am hard pressed to believe this would ever happen with Jesse.

Jesse seems to be the most spiritual man of the two. He has a spiritual centeredness about him I have rarely seen from the bachelors. If you get passed how Jesse can dress sometimes, you can see a very well seasoned, intelligent man. He would definitely be a rock you can lean on. I see by Jesse's consistent actions throughout the series as having a loyalty that surpasses most. Remember on the last show Deanna stated that Jesse and Jeremy were the two consistently sitting by her throughout the episodes. This is a big sign of loyalty. Jesse was also the only one that made physical contact with her, by holding her hand when the bachelors had to sing for her. These little signs DO say a lot.

Throughout most of the episodes Jason was so into his son TY it was hard to get a handle on whether he was looking more for a "Mom" for his son, or someone to love. I found a consistent genuineness about Jesse's feelings for Deanna form the beginning. He took things slow, and REALLY got to know her. It's a shame that it seems that so many people can't look past Jesse's unique sense of dress to see a really wonderful man. He most definitely has it all. As far as his future career plans, anyone who who is as dedicated an obviously good at what he does now, he should have NO problem making a success of what ever he chooses to do in the future.

There you have it, why I think Jesse would be the better pick. I'm sure there's a few fans out there who looked deep into who Jesse is to figure out he rates #1.

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  • Jennifer Jones8/21/2008

    My question to DeAnna if she knew that Jason was boring to her why did lead him on and the peolpe. I can say this about DeAnna she told a lyed and that was when Jesse ask her had ever been on a horse and carriage ride , and she no what was her and Richard date nothing and I want to know what did she mean about Jesse being her friend and now he need to step up and be her boyfriend , what did she call all the other guys butt heads fools what that was very for her to make that kinda statement in my book. Jesse didn't help her on the horse if that was Jason he would made sure that she on first and that all to it so, but I forgot that Jesse is a kid .

  • aprillove7/17/2008

    Hannah you really hit the nail in this article.Heck I'm starting to get crazy over jesse!DeAnna chose the one that makes her heart beat and pulse pounding.Jesse got sex appeal but at the same time he can be a cool dude!Not boring at all.He looks like a Sean Penn and Michael Douglas blend into one.

  • Hannah7/9/2008

    Bernadette: As I have stated in my most recent srticle Bad Rap Fpr Dee- Jason didn't have to leave his son, and I donot respect him for doing it. His son is at a vunerable and young age, and without his mother there Jason should not have left him. If he's such a great catch like everyone seems to think, he should be able to find love in his own home town without leaving. I would never have left my son at that age for weeks for a 1in 25 chance at love. Kids grow up too quickly. I think he was being selfish, and Deanna should not take the rap!

  • Bernadette7/8/2008

    Hannah: I do understand that but I think she should have let Jason go home and kept Jeremy til the finale.

  • 3lilangels7/8/2008

    Great article thanks!!!

  • Hannah7/7/2008

    Bernadette: Unfortunately, she signed a contract and couldn't just say the heck with it I choose Jesse. Everyone knows what is expected of them going into the series!

  • Bernadette7/7/2008

    I am VERY disappointed in DeAnna! Not that she fell in love with a chose Jesse, but the fact she lead Jason on when he had a son at home missing him. She tells Jesse she loves him and follows up with Ive waited so long to tell you that...there were a couple of different comments she made which eluded to the fact that she chose Jesse long before the finale. She stood there and watched Ty cry because his father was leaving to be with her, seems Heartless. I do wish Jesse and DeAnna the best they really seem in LOVE and HAPPY, just wish she would have rethought the desicion to keep Jason when it was obvious she new she "couldnt live with out Jesse"

  • sweetrose19627/6/2008

    This season has really been the "best ever." I think DeAnna has made great decisions. Every time Jason was picked at the rose ceremonies he was always surprised. I like Jesse too but I think she might actually pick Jason because he is already a family man, he is responsible, set in his career and she really liked his family. I think DeAnna might think she might not fit in so easily with Jesse's life style, but I do like him. I am just not sure DeAnna is going to chose him. We shall see!!!!

  • Hannah7/6/2008

    Charlie K: Actually Jesse did tell Deanna he would like to be a sports agent. NO worries it takes ALOT of focus, dedication, and comittment to be any kind of athlete. He will succeed at whatever he does!

  • Charlie K7/6/2008

    Jesse is a great guy. No doubt about that. I'm just not 100% sure he is really ready to settle down. He didn't really have an answer to her question about what he wanted to do after snowboarding. I worry that De Anna might be looking for more security than Jesse can provide and that could come between them. But, hey, I don't ever mind being proven wrong when it comes to love.

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