Back to School '06 -'07: Surviving "That Teacher"

It's that time of the year again, and if you haven't received the infamous supply list in the mail that will also reveal the name of your child's new teacher this year, prepare for the worst!

Your child could get 'that teacher' this year.

That teacher that every parent talks about, that teacher that every student that has ever sat in their class tells horror stories about, and that teacher that reminds you of the worst teacher you ever had.

Don't fret if you've already gotten the news or if you're still waiting, here's some good advice on what to do when your child gets 'that teacher'.

The Confusing Teacher

Okay, let's face it; it only takes four years of college to be a teacher! While the job ad may have requested the candidate to possess, "Good communication skills" … that doesn't mean that a teacher can't be confusing because they can be.

First off, you need to schedule a teacher conference as soon as possible because if your child does not understand then this means your child is not learning. Explain to the teacher that your child simply isn't getting it, it's a comprehension problem, and you guys need some extra help.

Ask the teacher if there are websites that also explain the lessons he/she is teaching. Ask the teacher for a number where they can be reached after school in case you need help. It's a good idea to ask your child to buddy up with another child too, and don't forget to jot down that child's number on those days when neither of you are really sure.

The Strict Teacher

We've all had a strict teacher and we all know that a strict teacher can be a pain. We also know that strict doesn't always mean bad either!

A strict teacher will often make sure that their students pay attention to detail, avoid sloppiness, and turn in assignments on time or pay the piper. Children can really learn a lot about responsibility, accountability, how to pay attention, and most of all, reap the benefits of feeling proud of a job well done.

Before you let your child talk you into having a conversation with the principal to move them into another class on the first day of school, consider the benefits first.

The 'No Communication' Teacher

This is a bad teacher! This one ranks highly, and it's a toss up on which is the worst … between 'No Communication' and the 'Tough Grader.

Most children do pretty well the first nine weeks of school because they're relatively happy, and parents will be proud of their child's report card, beware.

When a parent opens up the report card for the second nine weeks, they may notice that their average A-B student is now a borderline D student. And the first thought that rolls through the parent's mind is, "Why hasn't the teacher called me?"

Guess what Mom and Dad, you guys are gonna have to stay on top of this teacher all year long. Exchange phone numbers and use them. Pick up the phone at the end of every week or request a weekly meeting for about fifteen minutes to talk about your child's progress, otherwise, you're not gonna know.

The Tough Grading Teacher

All jokes aside, everyone hates the tough grader and everyone wants to make the first 'A+' in class for bragging rights. The tough grading teacher really isn't so bad.

Here's a tough lesson; life is hard, work is hard, and someone will always expect more. A tough grader provides us with a challenge; they spark our mind, and demand more of us.

Instead of quitting without putting up a fight, it's a good idea to try. Encourage your child to 'show that teacher he/she can'. Keep a close eye on your child's assignments, help them if necessary to an extent depending on their age, look over your child's finished work, and watch the grades. If you believe that your child is truly being graded unfairly, talk to the teacher and try to find some common ground.

Teachers that challenge children are doing their jobs.

The Crabby Teacher

This one is hard to get along with, children complain, and honestly, ya can't much blame them!

A crabby teacher complains about everything, sometimes they yell, appear very irritable and a lot of children tend to feel intimidated by them. You can't let your child go through the entire year in fear.

If your child has complaints then you know what you have to do, air those complaints to the teacher. Sometimes we don't always know that we're being crabby, and teachers are no exception. The teacher will probably talk to your child, apologize, and ask your child to let them know when there are being 'too crabby'.

When a child realizes that a teacher is a human being too, it makes school time a lot easier, and takes away the fear.

Extra Tips

Always ask for a teacher's home phone number in case of emergency. If your family is experiencing problems, your child is sick, you need help with homework or simply want to check on your child's progress, you have the number. And you can always invite a great teacher to a gathering or party to show appreciation too.

Be active in school functions by volunteering as much as you can. If you feel that something is 'fishy' with a teacher, drop in unexpectedly a few times, observe the classroom and if you need some extra help, keep the lines of communication open with other officials like the guidance counselor or the principal/vice principal.

School is a valuable resource and we all want our children to get the most out of school to ensure a rewarding, prosperous future. School is what we make it, and your child will thank you for helping them make the most out of school!