Backpacking Japan: Eating Etiquette

Food in Japan is unlike anything in the west (except for the cheap imitation). The food is unique, and sometimes odd, but almost always delicious. With a cuisine that is vast and filled with rice, vegetables, and fish, as well as pork and beef, the food is one of the main reasons people come to Japan. It is not worth the trip if you can only afford to eat at McDonald's.

While eating is delicious, it is also a big deal. There are a number of different things to remember and follow when eating in Japan. Below is a list of the most common eating etiquette and expectations when in Japan.

Do not walk and eat. This is a big one, as it is considered rude, especially amongst the older generation. There was a time when food was scarce, and hard to come by. Now that the society has developed, that is hardly the case. It is, however, important to remember those past times, and to respect and appreciate the food you currently have. In Japanese culture, it is believed that food is to be respected, and that eating it while walking is disrespectful and shows a lack of appreciation for what you have.

Do not get drunk in a formal restaurant. This is very important. While in a bar or pub it is okay to get punch-drunk (and many late-night business men do), it is not okay in a formal restaurant. Neither is consuming your alcohol before everyone else has been served and your glasses have been raised in a Kampai (cheer).

Do not be rude. While this may seem like common sense, and even if you go into a restaurant with the goal of being polite, not taking the time to learn the cultural sense of politeness will likely result in your being rude at some point. It's important to remember that things vary widely from culture to culture, and while one thing may be polite in yours, it is very possible that it is rude in another.

Blowing your nose while at the dinner table (or anywhere, unless absolutely necessary) is considered horribly rude. Never do it at the dinner table. Excuse yourself to the bathroom or any distant and discreet corner. While at the table, never discuss anything 'gross', which includes the bathroom. Likewise, never burp at the table. While in some cultures, including SE Asia, that is considered a good thing, it is not in Japan, and will get you nasty stares.

These are the main taboos about eating etiquette. Don't be stressed about eating, but be mindful of what you are doing. When in doubt, wait until someone else at the table makes a move, or observe those around you. If you are entirely unsure of what you can do, simply ask someone quietly and politely. They will be more than happy to help a gaijin out.