Basic Steps in Becoming Catholic

How you come into the Catholic Church depends entirely on where you are in relation to it at the present. Below are some basic steps you should take into consideration as you explore the Church.

Fallen-Away Catholics

• Were you baptized Catholic? If so, did you receive the sacraments of Confirmation and Eucharist? If you have received these three sacraments and wish to return to the Church, normally all you will need to do is receive the sacrament of Reconciliation and you can return to the sacraments and the Church community. Talk to a parish priest to find out more.

• If you were baptized Catholic and have not yet received the sacraments of Confirmation and Eucharist, then you might want to consider joining the RCIA program at your local parish. There, you will be with other adults seeking full reception into the Church.

Non-Catholics

• Whether you were baptized or not, RCIA is the normal way people are brought into the Church. It's a great way for you to get to know people while you are receiving instruction and exploring the Faith we hold dear as Catholics. Contact your local parish to find out when they meet.

Everyone

• Pray about this decision. Ask God to give you wisdom and guidance as you explore the Church or consider returning to it.

• Read as much as you can. Often, reading the stories of others from similar backgrounds and experience helps to answer questions. It is also helpful to read the documents of the Church so you can know firsthand what the Church teaches, especially if your background includes receiving anti-Catholic teaching through your religious group.

• Talk to Catholics. There are networks, including the one found here at CatholicDestination.com filled with people just like you who are searching, and there are people who come from backgrounds similar to your own who are now Catholic and can share their experiences with you and answer your questions. You're never alone in your search.

• Talk to a Priest. Your parish priest would love to talk with you about your interest in exploring the Church. He can also tell you about the RCIA program or put you in touch with the leadership of that group.

• Go to Mass. Going to Mass for the first time can be a bit strange, especially if you're not from a "high Church" background. Don't worry. Do the things you feel comfortable with and spend time paying attention to what you see and hear. Everything has a special meaning and is significant. One item must be stressed, however. Do not present yourself for the Eucharist. As people leave the pews to go forward, remain sitting or kneeling. You won't be the only one so don't worry about appearing out-of-place. Even if you wish to believe as Catholics do that the Eucharist truly is the body, blood, soul and divinity of Jesus Christ and no longer bread and wine, until you have received the sacraments of Baptism and Confirmation you need to stay where you are. This is a good time to reflect and pray.