Becoming a Ladies Man (Part 4)

Introduction
You've made it past the hardest part, the initial approach and are now about to go out on a first date. Wherever you choose to go on your date should reflect what your goal is for the night. Hopefully I can give you a few suggestions that will get your foot in the door and possibly both feet in the bed.

Suggesting A Place
If you are anything like me, the goal for the first time out is always sex. Yep, that's right, the goal is sex, but sometimes it takes more than one date. Hopefully, I can point you in the right direction and increase your chances of scoring the first night. Before I jump into this, let me just say this, it's not where you start, it's where you end up. I'll give you the secret to the day long date that almost always ends with sex as long as you don't say the wrong thing and screw it up.

A good idea is to ask the girl what she is into. Whatever she says, you might want to take her there as long as it's in your budget. The key is to take her somewhere that will allow her to talk to you. If she asks you where you want to go, suggest some of the following:

1. Miniature Golf: Yep, girls like miniature golf for whatever reason.
2. Out To Eat: Food is always great, so go somewhere nice.
3. Shooting Range: Guns get their adrenaline going and they've probably never been before.

If you are really adventurous tell her to keep her day free because you want to surprise her. Then time everything out, but don't be anal about it, and take her to all three places. Start with the eating, then go golfing, then end the day with shooting. If you can get her adrenaline pumping, you can suggest going back to your place for a drink. Make sure you buy the drinks ahead of time.

Picking Her Up
Pay attention to little things in the conversation also. If she says she has never gotten a black rose from anyone, get her one. Don't mention it, don't even remind her that you were paying attention. Small things score big points. Some of this stuff should be common sense, but I'm going to go ahead and assume you haven't done this.

1. Clean Your Vehicle: Women like clean comfortable environments.
2. Wear Cologne: Don't drown yourself in it, a couple of squirts will do. (Cool Water makes them wet. Guaranteed)
3. Clean Your House: If you lan to get them back there, make sure they want to stay for a while.
4. Shower
5. Wear Clean Clothes
6. Be On Time

I'm going to assume that you know to get directions and use Map Quest.

Call, Knock, or Honk?
Don't call and don't honk, walk up to the door like a gentleman and go get her, unless she tells you to call or honk. If she tells you to call or honk, she probably doesn't want you to meet her kids or family, so respect her wishes. If you call or honk to get her to come out, don't get out to open her door. If you go up to her door and knock, don't knock like a girl scout and don't knock like the police. Use something in between. Make sure you open the passenger door if you walked up to her house to get her to come out.

Going Out To Eat
If you are going out to eat, make sure you have enough money to cover the bill. Next, make sure you sit across from her and not next to her.

1. Don't go to any fast food place.
2. Don't be a sloppy eater.
3. Don't try to order her food for her.
4. Don't order the most visually disgusting thing on the menu.

Take the time to ask her questions about herself. Remember, women love to talk about themselves, so give her as much opportunity as possible. Make her laugh but don't talk too much. You can pretty much apply some of the same suggestions no matter where you go. As long as you don't say anything off the wall that makes you sound crazy or like a prevert, you should be in.

Ending The Night
If you notice, I didn't suggest going to the movies. The reason for this is that is a suggestion you should make when you want to end the night. Ask her if she would like to rent a movie. If she says yes, you are almost where you need to be. If she says no, don't push the issue, just save it for another night. If you are a nervous person and don't want to press your luck, then congratulations, you know how to stop while your ahead.

Going The Extra Mile
For those of you who have a gambling problem like myself, go for the movie suggestion. If you manage to get a yes, let her pick the movie. Before the movie starts, ask her if she would like a drink (buy alcoholic drinks ahead of time). During the movie you can grab her hand and gently suggest that she move closer to you or for better results, let her put her feet on your lap.

If she is sitting close to you, ask her if she would like a back rub. If she has her feet on you, ask her if she would like a foot rub. If you have never done either, practice on your own feet first. If it feels good to you, it will probably feel good to them.

The next few things will probably get you laid if you ease into them and do them in order.

1. Back Rub
2. Neck Kissing
3. Back Kissing
4. Lip Kissing
5. Sensual Touching
6. Slowly Undressing Her

Yep, it's that simple, but remember no means no. If she stops you, don't press the issue, just wait until next time. If she let you get that far the first time, you'll probably pull it off the second time. If you have a female friend that will let you practice rubbing their back or feet, then you should probably take them up on the offer. Practice makes perfect. Make sure you take everything slow and give her time to ease into it.

Conclusion
There is a ton of information that I could give you, but the outcomes are unlimited and so are the directions the date could take. If she tries to sleep with you, go with the flow. If you have any more questions, feel free to send me a message on AC. If you haven't already done so, make sure you add me to your favorites.