Becoming Who You Are Meant to Be

So, have you decided what you want from life? If you do not have a clear intention, then your life will be decided for you by other people and circumstances. This may lead to a life of utter misery or utter dullness.

Let us say you are at the airport, and you can't decide if you want to go on this flight or not. If you procrastinate long enough the plane will leave without you and your ticket will be worthless. However, had you acted, you would either be flying or be rescheduled on a different flight. So it is with your life; the world will continue to move on, with or without you.

Ask yourself: What is it that you desire from this life? Realize that you only get one try at living this life. Regardless of your beliefs on the number of lives you may get, you only have this one right now. You are alive inside your skin right now, you have a life to live, you can not go backwards in time with this life; only forward. So, what is it going to be? Are you going to do something with this life or waste it?

What do you intend to become? Set your goal and set a deadline, saying to yourself that you do want to be something and do something with your life. Clarify your intentions: What is your intent in thinking that thought, in doing that deed? Commit 100% to becoming who you want to be.

Understand your intention and make it a purpose. Study, learn, discover and gain insight into what you intend and what it means to you. Visualize yourself, what you are, and then what you want to be. See yourself as that new person, the old is gone and the desired new you is there. Affirm to yourself and others that you are that new person and that you deserve to be.

Be grateful for your blessings; the more grateful you are the more you will receive. Set specific goals and follow your game plan. Stay true to your ideals. Talk your truth and then walk the talk.
Take some hints from the universe: It is constantly creating new space. Why? It has to make room for more.

Make some space in your life for more to show up. Get rid of what you don't need. If those thoughts, those beliefs, don't serve you -- get rid of them, change them, dump them, or don't do it any more. If your habits serve no useful purpose, junk them. If that activity is not producing your desired results then stop it. For example: Why exactly do you watch TV? Are you going to get wealthy watching cartoons or soap opera? More than likely -- NOT!

Replacing behavior with new behavior is easier than trying to change old behavior. Rather than sit at the table and try to not overeat is very hard, but to sit at the table and read, or draw, or paint is an easy new habit to use to replace the old.

You can be what you will to be.

Be Blessed

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