Boobs & Brains: Not Necessarily Exclusive of Each Other

Tighten your seatbelts and hang on for the rides folks, because we are about to go on one wild ride. Together, you and I are going to explore one of the many stereotypical ideas that plague our society. Despite what you might be thinking this particular stereotype does not affect people of one religion, one color, or one sexual preference. It manages to cross the boundaries of almost every other stereotype and seep into the minds of everyone even the ones of us who believe that we are immune to that type of thinking.

Are you ready to find out what it is? Hold on, it's a big one, here it is - boobs and brains. For some reason, most of us love to believe that any woman who has big boobs is doomed to be stupid. Almost everyone likes to believe that she has to be some vapid little waif, completely devoid of meaningful thought.

Now, although I can claim no immunity from the fact that I have assumed many times based on someone's appearance that she simply had to be an airhead, I have to say, we really should look at this line of thinking. I have also fallen victim to this type of thinking a time or two, and let me tell you when the shoe is on the other foot it hurts.

First off, let's just say it, women who are smaller breasted do not face the same stereotype that those of us with bigger breasts do. No one is going to assume that they are promiscuous, they are an airhead, or that they just like to show off because they come in with mosquito bites for breasts. However, if a larger breasted woman wears a shirt that shows any amount of cleavage, she automatically falls into all three categories.

I mean really, how many times have those of you with A cups gotten into a conversation with any man, only to discover 5 minutes into the conversation that his eyes had never crossed the threshold of your neck to your face. I have never figured this one out, because quite frankly although they may be large, they are never going to speak back. And, believe it or not, if you listen to the words coming out of the mouth sitting above that neckline you never got past, they may actually make sense. There may be something bigger on that body than the breasts that are right up front, and it could even be their brain.

So, let's stop taking for granted that the blood flow to a woman's brain has obviously been guzzled up by those large perky breasts which reside a little below it, and actually get to know her for who she is before we decide she is a bimbo, a ditz, clueless or intellectually impaired. Try having a conversation with each woman before you decide who she is or what she is about based on breast size.

Or face the wrath, those of us with larger breasts may decide that all women who are smaller are obviously nerds, and any man that can't carry on a conversation with our faces instead of our boobs are simply idiotic booty hounds who should be called on it immediately. Take a chance, make a friend, talk to someone and save the judgments for the end of the conversation, and for goodness sakes look them in the eyes!