Borderline Personality Disorder is the New Mean

Barbara Mitchell-King
Can you imagine being mean just because you know you can? What a terrible thing to be involved in or worst yet to be married to someone with Borderline Personality Disorder. They have no regard for anything or anyone, you are rushed through everything you do even a doctor's appointment that is if you are lucky enough to get them to take you to one. They are always frustrated and they walk around trying to intimidate everyone that walks in their path but if these BPD men knew about women they would know that gentle is better. Instead of them bulldozing their way through everything if they would just try and relax, be caring and compassionate they would see that it is so much easier to get along that way. They are so mean and screwed up that you want to feel sorry for them and just when you are at that point when you feel sorry for them they say something mean and hateful and your resentment and anger starts all over again. It makes you ask yourself that why am I giving this person the time of day? They usually are not worth your time or effort but yet you keep trying and where does it get you? Absolutely nowhere, they are a different breed of people and no matter what you do to try and convince them that you love them and care for them they push you away. And you stay with them because you are trying to make them understand that they can be loved and it becomes a crazy, crazy cycle that you can't seem to break and it becomes a bazaar roller coaster ride. You are trying to make a person with zero comprehension understand a concept that they've never been introduced to and that concept is love. How can you love such a mean person only a person that eats, sleeps, and drinks love can even think about loving a person so mean and cruel.

Until the next time Be Blessed and please feel free to comment

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  • Barbara Mitchell-King9/1/2010

    Unfortunetly I do I have embraced this person for thirty-two years how much more hugging should I do. I'm one of the best people I know and I have a whole lot of people that share my centiments. Being mean is far from me and be blessed.

  • Wow...8/31/2010

    I think you sound like a very mean person. What about embracing someone instead of spending time crucifying? Seriously, sounds to me like you might have some psychological disorder yourself.

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