There is at least one condition that prevents a mother from nursing her infant. This is no reflection on the mother, and does not mean that there is something wrong with her or something wrong with the baby. Some babies are born with a high palate. This just means that the baby's palate is too high for the mother's nipple to hit the roof of his mouth, resulting in the baby not knowing when to latch on and start suckling.
If your baby has been diagnosed as having a high palate, you may be wondering what your options are. Since this is an uncommon condition, it may not help to talk to someone from La Leche League. However, you or the person from LLL can do some research online and find others that have successfully fed their baby breastmilk, even when the baby had this condition. Even if your baby was diagnosed with a high palate, you don't necessarily have to feed formula to him. Granted, trying to nurse her will only result in frustration for both you and your baby, and she will lose weight because she is not getting enough nutrition from you.
Since most hospitals now have lactation consultants on staff, you can get help before you leave the hospital. Many hospitals have breast pumps that they offer on a loan basis. These pumps are designed so that they have new tubes and flanges for each mother that uses the pump, to reduce the chance of cross contamination with someone else's breastmilk. When the lactation consultant or other hospital staff member brings you the breast pump, they will bring a separate package with the flanges, tubes and other parts of the pump that will touch your breastmilk.
There is at least one record online of a mother who had a baby with a high palate. Though she fed her baby exclusively pumped breastmilk the first month. After that month, she was able to start nursing her daughter, as her daughter had grown into the high palate she was born with. If this does not happen to you, don't be discouraged. It's still not a reflection on your abilities as a parent. Admittedly, it can be frustrating and time consuming to pump enough breastmilk for your baby, but you are feeding her the most nutritious food available.
Unfortunately, when you are pumping breastmilk instead of nursing your baby, you will find that your breastmilk supply does not keep up with demand. You have several options when this happens. The first option is to supplement with formula. If you choose this method, you will find that you will need to give the baby more and more formula, eventually giving the baby all formula. If you want to give your baby exclusively breastmilk, you will want to find another way to keep your milk supply up. There are several herbal supplements that you can take to help with your milk supply, or you can talk to your obstetrician and get a prescription for a medication that will help keep your milk supply up. For many of the prescriptions, the increase in milk supply is a side effect for the medication, so you will need to evaluate whether you want to take the medication or if you want to go the herbal route.
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6 Comments
Post a CommentI worked through it and was wildly successfully. I was determined and I made it happen. IT CAN BE DONE! All it takes is time, patients and a good support system.
If you have these issues please contact a Lactation Consultant.
Moonx I'm sorry you weren't able to nurse, it sounds like you perhaps suffered from a little guilt? I hope not, it sounds like you made an effort, and for that, great job!
If you are trying to defend why you chose not to nurse, don't, it's nobodys business how you choose to feed your child.
Inaccurate post on the internet, such as these, do not give mothers the:
1. Correct information
2. Support and encouragement
3. Hope
I guess I felt compelled to respond so I can be another "online record" with the exception of the fact that I breastfed from day one with both of my high palate boys.
*sigh* I am sorry you had a rotten nursing experience, that must have been terrible hard on you.
AND you are absolutely right, every case is different. BUT A HIGH PALATE DOES NOT PREVENT A MOTHER FROM NURSING HER BABY.
I googled high palate to grab some information for a friend when I ran into your article.
You have some great advise about going to see a lactation consultant if you have any nursing trouble. Totally right on the money.
However, you start throwing around lines like this:
"Granted, trying to nurse her will only result in frustration for both you and your baby, and she will lose weight because she is not getting enough nutrition from you."
AND THIS
"Unfortunately, when you are pumping breastmilk instead of nursing your baby, you will find that your breastmilk supply does not keep up with demand."
AKKKK!! Now that's no way to encourage or even help out a fellow breastfeeding mom.
I am the mother of 3 boys, 2 of which had high palate issues. I wor
Unfortunately, I had to go back to work so could not pump for 30 minutes every few hours. Additionally, according to what I was told at the Health Department, it wasn't unusual that I wasn't able to pump enough milk to keep up.
this article talked about not being able to keep up with the baby need if you are only pumping. My partner pumped only due to our daughter not wanting to nurse and she not only kept up she was able to pumped a year supply in six months and we had to go buy a second deep freeze. She pumped for 30 mins every 3 hours for the first few months to really get her supply going and it worked!
It may be possible, but my son refused the nipple shield. He'd try and then get frustrated no matter how many times I tried. Every case is different.
I was able to breastfeed my baby with a high palate with the use of a nipple shield. I never gave him a bottle and his is pretty severe. It's hard but it can be done.