Bring the Sexy Back to Your Relationship

When in a relationships, some things become routine. Let's admit it, after awhile, a routine can be so boring. Having a few things up your "bag of tricks" will drive your partner wild and keep a spark in the relationship! Here are some things for can keep the fire burning. Be ready because it is going to get hot!

Sneak Attack - The sneak attack is when you go and simply jump on your man when he least expects it. For example if he likes to watch a particular show or he likes spots during a commercial or half time, just go right up and give him a BJ. Time it right so you are finishing up right as the show is back, look him in the eye, say thank you. Then go back to doing whatever is it you were doing like nothing ever happened. It will blow his mind and a few other things.

Get in the kitchen and cook! - Cooking your boo a meal is a real turn on. If you are normally not one who cooks do not let the thought of rolling up your sleeves and getting in the kitchen overwhelm you. There are many easy recipes you will be able to master, just follow the directions. So put on an apron and get your Martha Stewart on. As my southern momma always says "the way to a man's heart is through his stomach"

Keep rocking the sexy - Just because you get a man does not mean you are suppose to let yourself go. One of the main complaints men have about being in a relationship is that the girl let's herself go and she stops getting dressed up. When you have a man stay on top of your game, keep looking your best that is how you got him after all isn't it? Plus, looking good means, he will always have to stay on top of his game to be with you!

Learn about sports - Men think it is hot when they can talk to a woman about sports and she does not roll her eyes, seem bored, or ask the same question. Take the time to learn some things about his favorite spots, it will surprise him and make him happy that you have taken an interest.

Role Play - It goes without saying that women like to role play, but men are always good to go if you suggest role playing. You might even find out about some secret desires he has been storing up. Some of the best role play scenarios are cop and hooker, doctor and nurse, boss and secretary, and last but not least stranger one night stand.

Watch adult movies with him - Most men watch adult films; there is no getting around this fact. Instead of making him sneak around to get his sexy film fix, I suggest that you watch it together. You just might actually enjoy watching the movie. Plus the great thing about watching those types of films is you will be able to see what the professionals are doing, it's just more techniques you can add to your bag of tricks.

Originally appeared on the blog The Kitten Lounge.