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Britney Spears Fat? No, Curvy!

Delight in Your Beautiful Curves, Imperfections and All - If You Can't Be Comfortable in Your Own Skin, What Kind of Life is that to Live?

Donna H. Davey
Generally, I have no interest in Britney Spears and I don't have much interest in her now. I haven't seen her performance at the 2007 VMA awards that have so many tongues wagging, so all I can go off of are some photos and I find that Britney, at least in the photos, looks pretty good, sexy even, at least to me.

You see, my personal preference is remarkably average; I don't like skinny because there's not much to look at, or enjoy, and skinny lacks over-all sexual appeal. I find curves far more intriguing, attractive, fun and comfortable (please don't go there). The most beautiful women in my opinion are the ones who project soft, natural femininity and don't obsess over their weight, shape or what they have to do to keep themselves up; they're beautiful just because, not in spite of.

What I mean by that is they're at peace with the way they look, curves and all, and they couldn't care less that they've missed a workout or that they can't indulge because they're so paranoid about becoming fat. People preoccupied with their appearances (especially their weight) are not fun to be around! I only mention this because I've fallen into that trap, and I didn't feel good about myself either.

Besides, what man wants to take a lovely woman out only to listen to her complain about the way she looks or observe her as she picks at her food? Wouldn't he find her much more enjoyable if she were relaxed or comfortable enough in his presence to share a yummy dessert with him?

Besides, most men prefer voluptuous. After all, thin can't fill out lingerie, but curvy can! This is one reason I celebrate curves and love being soft for my man. I never want to be told I'm skinny and I don't want to be thin - I just want to feel good, curves and all, because I'm here to enjoy life, without obsession and deprivation, and I'll do so while happily consuming a cupcake as I lounge in my lovely lingerie.

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