Building Psychic Bonds Between Friends

Teresa Conner
Have you ever just 'known' you best friend was the trouble or that they were about to call you on the phone crying? Then you have experienced a direct extrasensory bond with them. While most people are sensitive to the needs of others, nothing revivals the bond between two extremely close friends. This can often be linked to the intuitive bond shared by twins.

ESP (extrasensory perception) is something that anyone can experience but it is definitely much stronger and more accurate when it involves someone you are emotionally linked with. Think of it as a silvery cord connecting both of you 24/7 and this cord allows unequivocal access to each other emotions. This is the same when talking about family members. As mentioned above, this is something that is more likely to kick in gear, so to speak, in times of great crisis or emergency.

This feeling normally rears itself in the form of a sick stomach, or a anxiety of fear that you have no idea where it is coming from, or perhaps you will even hear their name. You might even have a physical sensation. The morning my aunt passed away, I was driving home from working overnight. Halfway there I heard a flap of wings and a cold hand press itself against the back of my neck. I knew something was wrong, I just didn't know with whom. I got home and then I got the call that she was gone. While in the car, I was experiencing both clairaudience (clear-hearing) and clairsentience (clear-feeling). I have no doubt that a spirit guide had come to be with me at that moment.

You can also have pre-cognitive dreams about your friends or family. I had a dream that my father had a heart attack about a month ago, and two weeks later he nearly collapsed with chest pains. I am not saying that every dream you have of someone will come true, but normally the ones that stick with you and are vivid in detail are something to pay attention to. Do this by keeping a dream journal. This will give you something to refer back to and see how correct your dreams are, because sometimes dreams are just your subconscious flushing out unneeded information and really don't mean anything.

The best thing to do to strengthen the bonds is to trust what you sense, feel, dream or hear. Follow you instincts. If you are washing dishes and then a sudden urge to call your best friend or a certain family member rushes over you, don't hesitate. You have that feeling for a reason. Trusting and discovering this bond can help to reinforce friendships.

A neat exercise to help strengthen the bond is one dealing with telepathy. Choose a playing card, hold it behind your back and relax while telepathically sending the image of the card to your friend. See if they can guess the color, suit or even the exact card. This exercise could work with any object, but it's best to start out easier with a card of some sort until the bond grows.

This could also work by having your friend send you a memory of his/her strongest childhood memory. See if you can get any imagery or perhaps even emotions from this.

I would also look around for exercises that don't necessarily take both of you, but it something you could practice together. Look for ones dealing with clairvoyance, clairaudience, pre-cognitive, telepathy, clairsentience and empathy. There are numerous books and websites out there to aid you. A few recommended books are Psychic Development for Beginners by William Hewitt, Intuition: Awakening Your Inner Guide by Judee Gee, and Clairvoyance: How To Develop Your Psychic Powers by Joules & Ken Taylor.

Published by Teresa Conner

Teresa, 28, is a freelance web designer, book blogger, aspiring author, poet, and environmentalist.  View profile

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  • Reign7/14/2009

    My friend and I have been trying with this for months now..and now...we never lose each other...We know each others emotions, sometimes if we focus, concentrate and clear our minds and focus on the other...we can tell thoughts...and we share dreams...its really amazing for us!

  • lostcityangelchic4/30/2008

    My friend and I have been thinking about things and they've been coming true. Like about a month and a half ago i was saying that i wish that my cat would have kittens. Well my mom gave me this look like "ummmn, I don't think so." So then i said well maybe if she just had one. A few weeks later we found out my cat was pregnant. So then i was like "I wish I had a pet of my own because my brother has his dog and my mom and her boyfriend have their cats and I don't have any pet at all. If I could get one it would be a boy tabby cat." So when my cat had her kittens, she had only one(weird I know), it was a boy, and he was a tabby. Then, my mom said i could keep him if I took care of him. But see this isn't the only time this has happened my friend has been doing it, as well. She told me that she wished that her step-sister's phone would mess up because she doesn't deserve one. The, about two days ago her step-sister's phone messed up so now she doesn't have one. Ever since my friend and i

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