Building Successful Relationships

If you feel you are not well accepted by someone you wish would accept and admire you, you have to conquer this person.

This person could be the one you love, or your boss, your teacher, your friend, whoever. The lessons I'm going to give you here are general and can be applied in all cases.

First of all you have to try to understand the other person's psychology.

Analyze their personality, try to understand their reactions: why they act the way they do? Who are they really?

Try to find out everything you can about this important person and pay attention to their behavior. Pay attention to what they like and to what they dislike.

Do that without being noticed, of course! Your research is secret.

After observing and examining everything you can about the other person, try to do things that they like, in the way they like them. You have to please them, having the behavior they admire. This is why you have to learn first of all what their preferences are, analyzing their personality and everything else.

You have to study the other person's behavior if you want to be successful in your relationship.

Now, if you want to be admired, you must do more than simply "please" the other person doing something they like.

Who do we admire?

We admire people that do something heroic, people that are successful, people that have a good character, people that help others, people that know many things, people that have a great sense of humor, people that always have the courage to say the truth, people that have an ideal in life, people that are not empty but have many qualities and do many things, people that work, people that are original... just to give you an idea.

So, if you want to be admired, you have to be somehow like the examples I mentioned: you have to be very good in certain point.

Which point? The one that the special person admires.

Depending on what they like, you have to adjust the ideal attitude for your case. Be a hero, according to their idea of a hero.

If for them a hero would be someone that works a lot, be an excellent worker. If for them a hero would be a person that makes a lot of money, try to make money somehow, in order to impress them; if they like generosity, be the hero that saves the poor, and so on.

There are many other things you can do!

Try to discover them by yourself, now that you understood how to begin.