Can Special Needs Students Be Bullies?

Aggression, Outbursts and Bullying in Mainstreamed Special Education Students

Kyla Matton
Mainstreaming leads to bullying
One of the unfortunate side effects of mainstreaming - integrating special needs students into regular classrooms with age-related peers - has been bullying. Special needs students may have difficulty gaining acceptance by their peers because they are visibly different from classmates in some way. Differences in physical appearance, speech patterns and physical or intellectual ability are obvious to most school‑age children, even to children in a kindergarten or nursery program at age 5 or younger. These differences set the special needs child aside from classmates; even with appropriate guidance from teaching and support staff, special needs students can become a target for bullying.

Pervasive developmental disorders like autism or Asperger's syndrome are also associated with social differences. Children with these disorders may have trouble carrying on a conversation, taking turns at a game, looking at people directly when speaking to them, or even understanding a joke. They may be rejected, taunted or even physically harmed by other students who take advantage of their awkwardness. The fact that the autistic child may have strong emotional reactions to minor disappointments - yelling, crying, breaking things or having a temper tantrum - makes matters at school even worse.

Special needs students as bullies?
It would be hard for anyone who has seen an aggressive outburst from a special needs student to deny there is a potential for violence, or for other students to be injured. And yes, this is a good reason to examine whether a specific student should be mainstreamed. It may even be an argument against the whole institution of mainstreaming special needs students. But are we really talking about bullying?

Dan Olweus is one of the most prominent researchers in the area of bullying in schools. He identifies three conditions that define an act of bullying: 1) "Bullying is aggressive behavior that involves unwanted, negative actions"; 2) "Bullying involves a pattern of behavior repeated over time "; and, 3) "Bullying involves an imbalance of power or strength." While the uncontrolled outbursts of a special needs student may meet the first criterion, and repeated outbursts would meet the second as well, the third criterion is perhaps the most important. It is also one we tend to overlook when we are upset about a pattern of unacceptable behaviour on the part of a special needs student.

Olweus' list of the reasons kids bully can help us determine whether that third criterion has been met. Kids bully, he says, because of three related motives: 1) A desire for power and dominance; 2) Satisfaction in harming others; 3) Material or psychological rewards derived from the act of bullying.

If the child is unaware of how his actions impact other children around him, it is highly unlikely that he is a bully. If he gains no power through the act, and takes neither satisfaction in causing harm nor material or psychological reward from the outburst, his motives do not match the known motives of bullies. Interventions intended for students who bully will have little effect on such a child, whose aggression is part of a completely different phenomenon and must be addressed in a different way.

It is inaccurate to call all aggression bullying, and pointless to treat it as such. The unique cause of each incidence of violence must be tracked down in order to treat each unique problem with the appropriate remedy.

Sources:
"What is bullying?." Olweus Bullying Prevention Program

Published by Kyla Matton

Kyla Matton has been writing ever since she could hold a pen in her hand. Her first piece was published almost 30 years ago, and since then she has written for a number of print and online publications. Her...  View profile

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  • Faith Draper11/18/2010

    Great article on a sad situation - I am sure bullying goes both ways special needs or not.

  • Cornelia Oancea11/14/2010

    Great article! @Peter, that might be true in some situations, but not all. There's been evidence that mainstreaming special needs students has helped both them and their non-special needs peers. The non-special needs students can learn how to understand, respect and interact with people who are different. Those are valuable lessons that can't be explicitly taught, and as a result ones that many people never really learn. And, since the role of education is partly to prepare kids for life in the world as it is, it's important for special needs kids, when possible/safe/appropriate for them and their peers, to be integrated into the mainstream in order to learn to function in larger society. Yes, there are challenges and yes, every situation is different and must be dealt with as such. There can't and shouldn't be a blanket policy/approach to educating special needs students, just like there shouldn't be a blanket approach to educating anyone else.

  • Julie Darleen11/10/2010

    This is an excellent and well thought out article. Great explanation of bullying and the criterion. Thanks.

  • Michele Starkey11/10/2010

    You know, we used to teach special needs Sunday school and one Down's boy was always hitting another child. When I asked him Why? he simply said, "I don't like him." It went on for awhile and finally I sat him down and talked to him and he told me that "he looks too pretty." The other boy didn't have Downs and I often wondered if something about him reminded my little friend that he looked different. It made me look at "bullying" differently - I don't think it was. I think Connor just struggled with his own special need. Good article, Kyla, I hadn't thought about this in years. cheers :)

  • Peter Flom11/9/2010

    The mainstream is where you drown.
    It's being sold to us a solution, when it's often just a way to save money

  • Major Jester11/9/2010

    Fascinating article.

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