Carrabba's Italian Grill - Family Friendly, Unless You're Sitting at the Bar

Laura Fleenor
Last week my family and I were visiting family in Plant City, Florida. We decided to go out to eat at Carrabbas Italian Grill in Plant City. There were thirteen of us eating together, and Carrabbas wait staff was excellent to us.

Our group included three babies, who all did pretty well for being in a restaurant for well over an hour, though my nephew would occasionally yell for no apparent reason. Don't get me wrong, he was not screaming consistently, and if he were, one of us would have taken him outside for a few minutes until he calmed down. He simply got excited, due to the fact that his parents do not often take him to restaurants.

The area that we were seated in was right behind the bar area, which had some very rude individuals seated there. It started when a woman sitting at the bar decided to scream out, mocking my 1 and a half year old nephew. A few minutes later, a man sitting next to her screamed. The man then started making comments like, "The damn kid's mother isn't doing a damn thing!". He made several other comments, and we simply ignored his ignorant behavior.

As we paid our bill and were standing up to leave, this rude man stood up and clapped, and said "now I can enjoy myself in peace." Needless to say, this ticked off my whole family, and the manager asked us what was going on. We told the manager what had been happening, and he gave us his deepest apologies, and stated that it was a family restaurant and this behavior was unacceptable. Our waiter and waitress, along with several of the customers complained that this man's behavior was unacceptable, and that he should be removed. The manager went over to speak to the man, as we went ahead and left the restaurant.

The reason I felt like I should write about this experience, is that I was appalled at the rudeness of some people. If you want a quiet place to eat dinner and drink booze, go home, not to a family restaurant. I felt that it was pretty sad that these two people were mocking a child that is not even two years old, and they must be very hateful people. Carrabba's Italian Grill handled the situation well, as soon as they discovered what was going on.

It was a very awkward situation, and it made us all wonder what type of children these two people were when they were young, because they obviously were not taught any manners. In all honesty, the people at the bar were much louder than the six children that were with us. Please use your manners (if you have any), and remember that what goes around comes around.

Published by Laura Fleenor

I am a divorced mother of 4 children (one in heaven), college graduate, and a webmaster. I was born and raised in Southern Indiana, and have also lived in the Tampa, Florida area.  View profile

  • Use your manners.
  • Don't mock a two year old, it only shows your intelligence.
  • If you are looking for a quiet meal, go home and shut yourself in a closet.
Carrabba's Italian Grill handled the situation well, as soon as they discovered what was going on.

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  • junielsky12/12/2010

    such people would never know what is the good manner as what they behavior so badly.omg!however,the airticle also means to tells us that we should deal with the similar matters in a gentle way.

  • Lisa Riggs9/15/2007

    I am so sorry you had to deal with that. I am contstantly amazed at the rudeness and ignorance of some people. Exactly as you stated, do not go to a family restaurant if you don't want to be around children. Excellent article Laura!

  • Kat Rice Williams9/7/2007

    We ate at one in Orlando, Florida. The pasta was great.

  • Nichole Beard8/29/2007

    Omg...Thats about my son..lol! I didnt even think to write about it!

  • Deb8/28/2007

    I do not have children and have a hard time tolerating screaming kids...then i remember that it is Public Place and they are just kids. I can not believe some people can be so rude to small children and their families who were only out enjoying their evening.

  • Cheryl Dennett7/27/2007

    Great article! :)

  • Laura Fleenor7/24/2007

    Thanks for all the great comments!

  • K. Ray7/24/2007

    The rudeness of others never ceases to amaze me. Not that this is any excuse, but I wonder if these people were obnoxious and exceptionally rude because they had been drinking. Some who drink become more brave and say things they wouldn't normally say. If they're naturally rude they become extra rude. I hope they were asked to leave, and I'm sorry you experienced this. A family restaurant is for everyone, and small children make noise. Those who don't want to hear small children should go elsewhere or stay home. I gave you five stars.

  • JustMeof37/22/2007

    Well written article

  • Becky Gallops7/19/2007

    So sorry to hear that this happened.

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