Catching a Internet Player Red Handed

How to catch an "Player" at his own game. Many men even those in committed relationships are now using the Internet as a way to "play the field" or have flings with other women. Of course everyone knows that a married man that cheats is despicable. However what about men who are for lack of a better word considered "Players". These men not only lure unsuspecting women on Internet dating sites like "Plenty of Fish" into relationships but continue to search for other women to victimize. In a way, its like an addiction to "Players" they enjoy the hunt so to speak and the Internet provides them a virtual smorgasbord of women in all shapes and sizes. A "Player" then can basically end up having these women do most anything for him.

I was once told by a man that does this kind of thing, that its an addiction of sorts. It makes him feel not so alone in this world because he has a woman for most any mood he might be in. If he wants a intellectual woman he calls this one, a fun woman that is up for most anything he calls another and so forth. I asked him why would anyone use women in this way, because they are all looking for a good hearted man to have a real relationship with and he is doing them a horrible injustice by convincing each one of them they are special and then continuing to play around behind their backs. I was told by him that he says whatever he has to in order to fit into their puzzle, he becomes that elusive puzzle piece that fits perfectly and then basically once he has conquered them he moves on to the next one. He actually was quite proud of his lifestyle and even used the words "Reckless abandonment" to describe his actions.

This article however offers a way to catch a womanizer like this and its really quite easy. For one if you find out what Internet dating or single site he is on simply make a phony female profile to turn the tables on him. The profile should fit his taste for women, if he likes women with money then play it up give your virtual female a good job with a nice income. If he likes blonds, make her blond. If he likes the woman to be young and flirty make the profile to reflect that and so forth. Find a picture of unknown person much like in the movie "Catfish", and its very easy to make a fictitious person profile and place it on any social website.

Another hurdle one will have to cross rather quickly has to do with phone calls, since once the initial contact has been made between the two, the man will most likely want to talk to the fictitious woman and set up a meeting. Since however most people these days are texters, you can simply explain you are a little leary of people on the Internet but you can text them if they give you their cell number. Using simply any free Internet text to cell program, any person can easily text someone on their cellphone and do it virtually anonymous. All you need is an email that the man will not recognize and free email sites make that very easy and are basically a dime a dozen on the Internet.

Once the texting begins you can proceed as you see fit. If you only wanted to know for sure if he is cheating then you have your evidence by just the communications with the fictitious person. If you want to set up a meet with the "Player", simply set it for a public place such as a restaurant or hotel lobby and you have your proof along with plenty of witnesses.

Here are some real examples of how low a "Player" can be when they are sneaking about to hook up with another woman and texting the fictitious woman.

　

I'm glad u wrote me and I'm looking forward to seeing you soon...mauuuuuuh.

Ok tomorrow evening it is then beautiful...ill be looking forward to it...

Good-morning beautiful..so are u planning on seeing me tonight possibly?

Awwwwww ty...so what motel are u at in town? Maybe i could stop by sometime and share coffee and conversation with you if u prefer

Do u want some company in the motel room tonight for TV...that's it, I'm very respectful and conversation sounds lovely

Sounds good sweetie..what hotel in town and 9pm will work fine for me
Ok sounds good...so what hotel in town am i coming too sweetie?

I really wanna meet u tonight so plz lets meet tonight ok...

I love kissing...cuddling...the entire bit...yes i do

and I'm very romantic..

Yes i do babe...what motel are u at in town and what room number and what time? Oh and give me the name the rooms rented in

Babe my son leaves at 7pm..just found out..can i meet u at 715pm instead? Whats ur name again and whats ur room number?

So how does laying on the bed cuddled close in conversation sound? And whats ur full name and what room are u in at the Holiday inn

I'm on my way to the hotel now..give me 10 mins ok

Catching a "Player" isn't that hard to do but once you do its very refreshing to sit back and say enough is enough and "I'm done". I have always watched television shows like "Cheaters" and wondered how hard that must be to find out someone is sneaking behind your back and lying to your face. However I will admit seeing how low someone will stoop is bitter sweet, it breaks your heart to admit you were so gullible but at the same time it can make you feel good that you finally caught the "Player" red handed.