Cheating Has Never Been as Easy as it is Now Thanks to the Internet!

Cheating and infidelity has never been as easy as it is today. Networking and marketing a personal service, product or advertising for an event is now a cinch as well thanks to the latest internet social portals. Furthermore, in regards to dating, cheating and so forth, finding ways of meeting new people has become one of the easiest things to do. With all of the technology, and computer networking sites on the web, arranging new love has become literally a piece of cake.

The latest sites that allow you to meet others and make for possible cheating and zesty love affairs are:

1.) Facebook: www.facebook.com

Facebook started out as merely a way for college friends and professional networks to stay in touch with each other. Now-a-days, everyone has a Facebook and knows how to utilize applications such as Friends for Sale, Hot or Not, Date Me, or many more applications made for socializing and dating.

You wouldn't believe just how many people, married, single, divorced, or whatever have a Facebook profile and use these applications to meet new friends or romances. I am sure that the engineers of Facebook did not intend for users to use their applications to carry out extra-marital affairs, and to engage in infidelity, but it's happening. Also, one important thing to point out is that most applications on facebook are designed by other computer techies and not neccessarily the facebook team members. Facebook allows you to design public applications to put to use, allowing other's to add to their profiles, but it is the fault of others who abuse and misuse these applications for deviant activities.

These applications allow you to have contact with the person of the opposite sex of whom you desire. Now there are still people who legitimately use facebook to actually network. You can network with college and high school friends, stay in touch with fellow colleagues; and use Facebook to promote your business, organization, event, and group. You can also use Facebook and to meet others for means of job leads, apartment searches and listings, form study groups, share a cause, or even raising money.

Another interesting fact is that you can now download the Facebook application onto most phones like the Iphone, Palm, and the nearly all models of the Blackberry( my personal favorite toy); allowing one keep their possibly flirtatious activities private, leaving no trace of activity on their work, personal, or family computers! However, watch out for the notification and wall-to-wall alerts if you in fact do happen to have other family members, business associates, employees, and family on your Facebook because if you forget and leave a zesty and super spicy message on the wall of one whom you admire, everyone could see it, get an alert, or hear about it, and that's not pretty!

The alerts kind of blast you out of the water, bursting your bubble of fun, along with bubble of the one you're pursuing. However, Facebook, unlike MySpace allows you to modify your privacy settings, which allow you to control and manage who you want to see what actions you do or participate in! So if you want to go wild with your lover on the beach, you can make your actions private, allowing only the recipient of the action to see.

For instance, you don't want your boyfriend to see that you've just flirted with another cute friend, so you can go into settings and simply block that person from seeing your actions. All you do is go into the privacy settings and click on your notifications and general settings. Scroll through and check it out. If you're one of those sneaky types, then this may benefit you!

Can you imagine getting busted or caught when your husband, wife, girlfriend, fiancé or boyfriend is alerted that you just left a super sexy and sensual message on another persons wall? Not pretty! Oooohhhh that can seriously turn tragic!

Hint-hint: I'd recommend that if you plan to flirt(not that I'm advocating flirting or cheating), try sending a private message via the mail system. I know that I should not encourage this! But hey I may be saving someone's stupid life. However, Facebook seems to be the MOST logical, and professional networking site because although it also has fun applications, it also maintains a level of professionalism. The old and new layouts are simple and clean to most, although there have been many that have complained about Facebook's recent application and layout face-lift. I personally love it and I love the way that the applications are separated into another page on your main profile.

For example, I'd like to tell you a story about a friend of mine whose boyfriend used the application "Friends For Sale" to cheat on her. Let's give this cheating fellow the name 'Doan'. Doan was a computer science major, and exchange student from Turkey. Doan was also a sneaky, sly, and charming little snake who was also an avid Facebooker. He had everyone on his profile, he even had a profile for his own pet Dog. Now, Doan started this Facebook affair when he was corralled in by his other Facebooker Turkish and American friends, when they all realized one late night, that the application, " Friends for Sale," allowed you to network, buy, sale, flirt, re-name your sexy human pets, and possibly meet them to carry out this fictional romance and I guess that virtual reality wasn't good enough for Doan, he wanted the real thing. FFS was somewhat of a virtual prostitute ring for Doan and his friends.

Little to my friend's knowledge, Doan had purchased a 'slutty, 40+ looking, saggy, baggy, stripper-ish, pet-of-a-crack-whore' for a grievous amount of $79,000 (Friends for sale play tokens), through Friends for Sale (F.F.S.), who was a cocktail waitress, who lived in the San Francisco-Oakland, California area. The newest, slutty little pet's name was 'Ashli' and Doan was well aware of her being a slutty, skanky, stripping pet. I suppose that's why he purchased her on Friend's for Sale. So low and behold, Doan started lying to my friend, telling her that her had hoped to gain employment at Apple Computers, and transfer to SFSU. So, as expected, he started making several trips down to San Francisco nearly every weekend, but the trips had nothing at all to do with Apple.

After three or four trips to SF, and mountains of lies, talking about imaginary interviews with top Apple execs, Doan told my little friend that he was going to enroll into San Francisco State University. My friend was ecstatic and very hopeful for Doan, being that he was a foreign exchange student. Doan had also become a bit distant and obsessed with his computer as well. He told my friend that he figured that he'd have a better chance of securing a job with Apple if he moved to San Francisco permanently and also have a better chance at completing his mater's degree in Computer Science at SFSU. So, my naïve little friend listened and Doan went to SF; however, one month before he was scheduled to move, she started receiving phone calls from the Oakland and Berkley area of Northern, Ca from some air-head girl. A light went on in her head, but it's a shame that the light did not go on sooner. Being that she noticed that Doan was always on his MAC book, she started to watch his activities. She noticed how he was obsessed and would constantly talk about FFS with his guy friends in Turkish, but being that she did not understand the language, she was in the dark. She only understood the letters 'F.F.S.' at the time. Meanwhile, Doan would take phone calls while they were on dates, and he would excuse himself from her, which was rare, being that he never answered phone calls during dinner or dates out.

One day, or a month before Doan was schedule to move to San Francisco, she snooped into Doan's computer after he had left it on all night and fell asleep. Doan had forgotten to exit from the F.F.S. application, and had left his entire page open, revealing dated e-mails, message correspondence, photos of Doan and this Ahli person together. My friend found dozens upon dozens of sexy, flirty, and scandalous discussions about what he had done or wanted to do to Ashli prior to his trips to San Francisco. Each e-mail coincided with Doan's trips. My friend was at first heart-broken and hesitant: she now knew that this was the rotten apple of a skank that had been calling her from Sa and the oakland areas. If I were to describe Ashli for my friend's benefit in an unbaised way-truthfully, I'd say that she looked like a 40+, with a really bad boob job, saggy skin in need of botox, who wore fake eye lashes, nails, and hair. They say that you should never judge a book by it's cover, but it was obvious that Ms. Ashli was a gold-digging, teeny bopper, whose face jutted out like a dog and she looked as though she wore dentures. I couldn't help but to judge this book by it's cover. I was also disgusted because my friend in fact was beautiful inside and out and no she wasn't boring...

It was abvious that Ashli was not under 28, but lied in e-mail to Doan telling him that she was only 21! What a lie! Some may try and argue that some women age faster than others, but she was really older and there is nothing on this earth that could make me believe that she was under 38! She was saggy, baggy, and had crowsfeet that spanned out like vines on a grape plant around her eyes. Oh, and the interesting part is that the skank claimed to be a computer science major as well, but from the e-mails she sent to Doan, she couldn't even figure out how to hook up her own computer system, or install simple computer software - go figure. Ashli was an air-head and then there was her friend whose name was also an Ashley and everything on this one was fake as well. According to the e-mails, it was obvious to my friend that Ashli and Doan were quite acquainted. My friend was had noticed how Ashli had been corresponding with Doan for four months now and how she had talked about their time and dates together; which corresponded with Doan's odd trips to San Francisco and absence from her their life.

What's even more horrible and sad is that my friend saved the photos that Ashli had sent to Doan and e-mailed them to me to ask what I thought about this situation. After I had looked at the photos, I told her to move on, exit gracefully from the situation, maybe confront him in a calm way, and not to waste her time any longer - she didn't agree or listen. She wanted revenge and that's understandable, but not plausible. My friend was so upset that she secretly flipped. She left Doan alone to finish his nap and did not say anything for weeks. By now, she had collected all of Ashli's personal information and let Doan think that she was none the wiser.

Doan really thought that he was some Turkish lover and player. He was quite the charmer; however, my friend was now well aware of his games and players never get caught, at least that is what I've heard and been told. So Doan was an idiot! I have no idea how she played this off being heart-broken and all, but she remained so calm and cool. I am not sure if she was on valium, or if she was secretly going insane. I just knew that she was heart-broken and wanted closure.

Doan left and she calmly asked him if he was going to SF because of another female, and he said no. She knew that this was a lie, for she had discovered Ashli, that he never enrolled into SFSU, and that his academic transcripts and G.P.A .were so shot that there was no way in hell that he'd ever get into the computer science program at SFSU. He was a raving jiggaloe, who only cared about the twisted things in life such as old whores.

Doan was a dog as well, because he told my friend that they were still together and that he wanted her to come and visit him in San Francisco. What's even sicker is that my friend allowed him to let her think that they were STILL together. By now, my friend had also found her several boy-toys on Friends for Sale as well, and started to do a little dirt of her own, so she didn't care; at least that is what she made me think for the time being, but I also started to think that this was an immature and sick little game.

Doan moved to San Fran and they kept in touch with my friend; however, Doan started to act maybe distant or differently with Ashli once he moved to San Francisco, and had 'rode her ride, climbed her mountains, and got his jollies on and then became bored', and was a bit tired of her sexual amusement park. My friend wanted sheer revenge. So to exact revenge, my friend called her boyfriend's phone from a 415 area code, pretended to be another slutty frienemie of Ashli's and left a message on Doan's phone, telling him that Ashli had given him herpes or an STD. What's even more sick in a ways is how my friend knew that Doan was terribly afraid of STD's, after hearing about herpes on television and watching commercials; which later caused him to research exactly what herpes was, what it did to you, and how it affected you. My friend knew that Doan was a clean freak, but also a roaming and womanizing dog... Now how does that mix? How can one be a clean freak AND a roaming womanzing and cheating, dog in one? Oh and by the way, my friend did this all from a pre-paid phone. What an awful thing to do... Right? She wanted closure and that's what she told me, but I still couldn't understand why she had to do something like that.

Well, within three hours, Doan called my friend telling her that he was very sorry and that he needed to talk with her about something... She knew what that 'something' was about. Meanwhile, Doan had moved out of the appartment that he had acquired with Ashli.

We seem to think this is what made Doan become distant from Ashli for sure, which made Ashli go bullistic and come out of her slutty bat cave, growling, calling everyone, spitting up green pea soup, sending hateful messages to my friend on Facebook and more. She basically started to contact and stalk my friend anyway she could, and she even made up multiple profiles to do so. A police report was made against Ashli as well. Let's just say that once Doan got to San Fran, miss Ashli, the slut, started freaking out and spying on Doan, who was now using Facebook to write long love letters to my friend, who was his original girlfriend, who lived in Los Angeles. Doan was quite an animated and emotional character... if only you knew how animated and emotional he was.

Ashli flipped and called my friend several times, causing a phone-stalking war to take place and forcing Doan to step to the plate and admit that he had an FFS affair. Doan told my friend that this girl was a whore that he had met on FFS. Let's just say that the whole entire incident was so ugly that Doan fled the scene, cancelled his Facebook profile, and has told everyone that he's returned back to Turkey to attend a university to complete his master's degree.... Although we all know that that's a huge lie; being that he's been tagged in nearly every photo album that's been posted on the pages and profiles his little circle of Turkish friends, that have established themselves on Facebook, by way of their SFSU affliation as students, and students of San Francisco's Art Institute. My friend and Doan have went their separate ways and Doan is now roaming around the Turkish district of San Francisco like a vagabond attending raves, frequenting parks and Mediterranean restaurants. You can be sure to find Doan if you go, or attend anything that has anything to do with anything Turkish or raves. My friend is now happy, in a new relationship that she did not start on Facebook, and has nothing to do with FFS. I wrapped a 4 month saga up in a few paragraphs, but that was only to give you all an idea of what happened as a result of playing around and abusing an application like FFS, or using internet communities to have flings.

Another interesting site thati s used for affairs is MySpace... We have ALL heard of MySpace.

MySpace:

2.) MySpace: www.myspace.com ... Gosh, MySpace is so infamous with trouble and horrifying new stories. What can I say? We've all heard of Myspace on CNN and your local evening news. MySpace has become a public fiasco among the net world.

Everyone knows that MySpace has had quite a reputation and has been at the forefront for several newsworthy cases involving kidnappings, abductions, freaks, and a sleuth of issues. Well, this isn't a secret, and everyone knows that you can meet, greet, and date, on Myspace. Some may use MySpace to just network or to keep in touch with family. I used MySpace in a Senior thesis that I did and that's ALL I used it for. Ha!

You can also access and download MySpace by way of your mobile phones as well! MySpace always has roving web users hoping to find quick love and romance. However, we never know what or who's really hidding behind that profile and I've seen some nightmares in my time! People are rarely who they claim to be in a photo! I actually wrote about a horrifying scenario that I experienced... Never again people! Never again!

Myspace was even the inspiration on a song by Gym Class Heroes, titled, "New Friend Request." Now, the song is sooo cute, and the lead singer Travis is sooooo hot, that he will melt your computer screen! Lol... The song kind of takes away some of the harshness and ridicule and embarrassment that MySpace has attracted over the years if you listen to the song! Thank you Gym Class Heroes for making such a hot song!

3.) HiFive: www.hifive.com - Interesting site. Needs to be updated with more "fun" options such as graphic fun.

4.) Friendster

5.) Black Planet, Asian Planet, and the Migente sites are also owned by the same parent company and are also infamous for dating and job networking. I believe that the addresses are:

A.) Black Planet: www.blackplanet.com - Awful site unless you're terribly lonely, desperate, and just honestly searching for networking!

B.) Asian Planet: www.asianplanet.com - Ugh... You can decide... You may like it... People tend to lie about who they really are.

C.) Migente: www.migente.com - This site coulds use some rulesand regulations. They need to improve their game.

These are also sites that enable one to date and socialize. However, these sites usually require that you be in college. When you sign up, you can specify whether you're in college or a recent graduate. Being that I am not really familiar with these sites, I do tend to stay away from them. These sites are not as interesting as MySpace or Facebook. I must admit that I personally experienced a tragic nightmare on Migent.com! No, it's obvious that I wasn't killed, but I was scared to death, once the person stopped hiding behind his photos and revealed himself to me!

Now that you've been armed with this vital information and given the 4-1-1 on sites, it's up to you how you use this as a virtue or as a vice in your life. Have fun, but don't break any hearts while you're having fun.