Cheating: Torturing the One You Love

Hannah
This article is sort of the "Scared Straight" Of cheating. Not because of what you, the possible cheater may lose or have taken away form you, but what you may do to and take away from the one you say you love. I guess if you chose not to cheat for your own sake, well it's better than nothing. However at the heart of the matter, it should be out of the love, and respect you have for your loved one. This is the reasoning that truly counts, in the eyes of truth, and God. Let's really look at the truth about cheating, what it will take away, and how it will affect the one you love. This short scenario is about someone who just found out the love of their life is cheating on them.

I can't believe it. The pain. The pain, I can't stop the hurt. I'm am useless, I am ugly, stupid, stupid me.

What will I do, what will happen? Oh my God, what will I do without the love of my life? How can I change this? I can't. What did I do wrong? I know it, I know it, I'm going insane. Stop this, it's NOT HAPPENING. Over and over again in my mind, without an end in sight.

The pictures, the pictures, I see them in my mind. Their together, I can' look. PLEASE don't let me see them together. They're happy, they're touching, they're kissing, I want to die, make it go away. I can't stand this; I wish I could rip out my mind!

When will this stop? What will I say? What can I do? I Hate the one I Love, I Love the one I Hate. My mind is going to explode. I'm shaking; I want to scream, why? Why? WHY did you do this to me???

It's so easy to be selfish, and want the things we should not have. When you marries this person, and made your vows, did you not love them? Did you not mean the? The above scenario is but just a whisper of the mental and emotional torture and agony that occurs for the one who has been cheated on. Ask yourself, would YOU ever want to be put through this? But, alas, that's not what's important here. The only question you need to ask yourself is, do you ever want to put the one you love through this much pain and suffering? I pray, your answer will be No, not ever!

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I am a former child & family counselor, and now retired. I am proud to be a U.S Air Force Vietnam Era Veteran. I enjoy writing articles on Relationships, Dating, Marriage, Parenting and much more! I hope you...  View profile

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  • Hannah2/9/2009

    Leslie: First of all this wasn't an "Article" so to speak. It was a scenario of the pain that people suffer when one is cheated on. Also, There's nothing to agree or disagre with. Being cheated on is the one of the most painful & torterous things that can happen to an individual. It is a betrayal that is so deep it is almost unexplainable. I'm truly sorry you didn't feel what most people would feel when reading this. I was a counselor before retiring, and have lived a long life. During that time and in those to instances I have seen the devestation cheating does to an individual as well as a family. I don't need to read another's article to know that. I pray you never have to experience what I wrote about.

  • Leslie2/8/2009

    Great article but I dont agree. You should really read an article by another Associated content member, Shaun Mathis.
    His explainations and examples are very thought provoking

  • aidyl 10/16/2008

    well

  • Pearlygates2/16/2008

    Hannah very good article. My answer is no. I hope this shows up, I have posted to others and they have not showed up. So, if you get two other ones you know why!

  • Nikki2/16/2008

    cheating is beyond horrid ... my opinion is if you're not happy with the relationship just end it, don't cheat on someone.

  • Pearlygates2/16/2008

    Wonderful article and my answer is no!!!

  • Jody2/15/2008

    Hmm, my comment's not showing up but...Great article! My answer is never!!

  • Jody2/15/2008

    Great article... my answer is never!!

  • cathiesbloggs2/15/2008

    Love Love Love this !!!

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