Child Struggling in School? Why You Should Try Homeschool

Struggling Learners, Slow Learners, and Those with Learning Disabilities May Benefit from Home School

Lyn Lomasi
Do you have a child struggling or failing in school? Have you tried the options available (extra help at school, tutors, etc) with little to no success? You're not alone. Parents and children struggle with this issue daily. Could home school be the answer for your family's situation? For some families, there will be many benefits of homeschooling a struggling child, either temporarily or permanently.

As a mother to a child who had some math problems that weren't resolved in public school, I chose to take on the responsibility of schooling my own children. Of course there were many other factors involved in our decision, including the fact that the children were also ahead in many areas. Seeing that the plan to school our children through the public education system was failing for us, we chose to school the children at home instead.

It is my hope that sharing lessons learned from our experience can help others decide if homeschooling is right for their child. Oftentimes, as in our case, a child simply needs a bit of one-on-one time to get steered back in the right direction. In a homeschool setting, a child can receive a great deal of student to teacher time.

The teacher may be a parent, relative, or even a private tutor, depending on the laws of the state the home-schooled child resides in, as well as the choice of the family. No matter who the teacher is, there is no question that a student who schools at home has a much better chance of receiving that individual one-on-one attention that will get the struggling child back on track. Children who are having a hard time educationally may also need a new strategy.

In the public school system, a new strategy plan isn't always possible. Some public and private schools offer programs to help children who are failing. However, not all schools will have a special program for children who are behind for their grade level. Even when the school offers program choices, there are still certain guidelines to adhere to. Those guidelines may not be right for every child.

Some children may need an approach that differs from the standards, such as a customized curriculum or a more relaxed setting, which, in many cases is not available in the public education system. In our case, this is exactly the plan we chose to follow. We found that customizing the plan to fit each child individually, rather than as a whole class, helped the child better understand and learn the lessons being taught.

The child in question was recommended to take her grade level over again, due to her poor math skills. However, in just a short time of home-schooling, she improved immensely and was able to complete the level she had failed in public school, as well as catch up to where she should be had she not failed. Now she is actually ahead in math. Ironically, it is now her favorite subject, whereas before, it was her most hated, feared, and dreaded.

Based on our experience with her, I would recommend homeschool as a valid option for parents. Common sense told that the one-on-one time would be beneficial, but the actual results were much more than we could have hoped for. The results were absolutely amazing for us, as the child in question had always struggled with math, even crying over it many times. We had tried everything; everything except homeschool. If I had it do again, I would have chosen homeschool in the beginning, at the first sign of struggle, rather than waiting until the problem escalated.

If you, yourself are not good at the subject your child is struggling in, yet would like your child's curriculum program catered to him or her, there are still plenty of options that will allow you to homeschool. There are virtual schools (online schools), tutors, community college classes, home-school co-ops, and a whole host of other options. If your child has learning disabilities, don't fret. There are many homeschooling families who actually homeschool because of learning disabilities. I have heard many mention great benefits from doing so. Click Here to see the HSLDA's information on that. The HSLDA is the Home School Legal Defense Association.

If you are interested in doing this for your child, do your research and find out which options are available to you. Homeschooling is currently legal in all 50 US states. However, the laws for each state differ, as what is allowed and what rules, if any, should be followed. Texas is one of the most relaxed states, as far as rules and regulations for homeschool. Interested parents should start their research at the HSLDA, as well as look up home-school co-ops, homeschool groups, tutors, curriculum, virtual schools, and more to get an idea of what plan or program will work best for the child.

Published by Lyn Lomasi - Featured Contributor in Lifestyle

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  • A student who schools at home has a much better chance of receiving individual one-on-one attention.
  • Some children may need an approach that differs from the standards.
  • The actual results were much more than we could have hoped for.
For some families, there will be many benefits of homeschooling a struggling child, either temporarily or permanently.

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  • Momie Tullottes 5/18/2008

    Thanks for sharing all of you. Very interesting info. Herstory, thanks for a perspective from one experienced with public school.

  • Herstory 5/18/2008

    Public high school educator advice: Yes, home schooling is a great alternative - if you can commit to truly educate your child. In fact, children thrive and exceed the standards of their same age/grade level peers, when given same curriculum in home environment. Home schooling fails children when parents just plop the book in front of the kids and go off to work - leaving the kids to their own devices. Home schooling requires a commitment, as you've shown well here. Kudos to you :-)

  • Brandy Madison 4/23/2008

    Wow, we had a similar experience! The way the math was being taught in public school, my son who had always been very ept with numbers, was convinced he was "not good" at math. He was so frustrated just a week into 4th grade, that we pulled him out and I've been homeschooling him all year. Here it is April, and he's literally working TWO grade levels ahead, now in 6th grade math curriculum! Not good at math my arse! LOL!

  • A.E. Olson 3/25/2008

    My mom sort of had to do this. She went to school with my brother all throughout middle school. My mom tried 'home-schooling' me once, but it didn't work out. Mostly because I don't like listening to her ;)

  • Vicki 3/13/2008

    Excellent article! We are giving a lot of consideration to homeschool our kids next year.

  • Momie Tullottes 3/8/2008

    Thanks everyone. Sports Mama, thanks for sharing your experiences - very interesting. I saw that Sylvia. I have an article under review about that very topic. So unfortunate. But, I have my faith that the HSLDA will work its hardest to get that overturned or at least "depublished".

  • Sylvia Cochran 3/8/2008

    You hit the nail on the head. Unfortunately, scores of Californians will be deprived of this option until further notice - unless they are certified teachers.

  • SAIKAT KUMAR DUTTA 3/8/2008

    very well written and outstanding piece.

  • sports mama 3/7/2008

    Nice article. As one who has made her living (mostly) in the public school arena, your article rings very true. For several years, I operated a tutoring service and many of my students were home schooled and I worked with them on subjects the parents didn't feel comfortable teaching. In most cases, I was able to bring kids up 2 grade levels in 6 weeks! My daughter in law home schooled 2 of our grandchildren until this year, and they are both way ahead of their peers.

  • Momie Tullottes 3/6/2008

    Thanks you three. Rosa, it's funny you say that (and an honor, of course). When my kids were still in public school, I used to use many online resources with them that were meant for homeschoolers. I never thought people would one day be using mine.

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