Children Speak Out Sometimes

A CON-versation with My Star Pupils

Linda Ann Nickerson
The most interesting information
comes from children,
for they tell all they know
and then stop.

Mark Twain
(1835 - 1910)

Educational experts seem to agree. The very best teachers ask the right questions. Insightful inquiries tend to elicit intelligent responses and stimulate learning. That's no secret. Trained instructors everywhere know this.

Students retain much more information, when they can come up with the answers themselves, instead of simply absorbing what others spout.

For this reason, skilled teachers try to draw ideas and information from their audiences, or students, by asking helpful questions. This strategy helps to keep active discussions on track, encourage student participation and keep classroom conversations moving in a constructive direction.

Of course, that may be so, in theory, but nine-year-old girls are another story altogether!

Here's how it all got moving along:

Recently, I volunteered to teach the third grade girls at our church. The curriculum included a series of topics and activities, for which the children would earn badges and awards. Scripture memory work, hands-on crafts, creative projects and lively discussions were the primary projects of the program.

My co-leaders and I enjoyed a wonderful group of bright, high-energy young ladies. Our once-a-week gatherings with these kinetic kids quickly became the highlight of our week.

Conscience matters.

After a few months together, we started a unit called "Conscience: Gift from God." The chapter began with a few important vocabulary words, which we needed to define together before moving on with the material.

During our teaching time, the word "conscience" was the answer I sought. However, as the teacher, I must have had the wrong question.

A single word can stop a teacher in nothing flat.

"What has God given to you, to help you to know right from wrong?" I asked.

"Parents?" one child responded.

"Well, that's true," I answered. Perhaps it was time to rephrase the question. "What has He given to all people, to help them to determine what is right and what is wrong?"

"Police?" another suggested.

"Well, that may be true too, but that's not the word I'm looking for here," I said.

The girls looked puzzled. "It's something God has given to everyone," I added, as if that might help to elicit the vocabulary word I sought. "It's something inside of you."

My co-leader tried to help things along. "The word starts with 'con,'" she said.

"And we all have it," I added.

A hand shot up, right in the front row, followed by a voice. "Constipation?"

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  • Educational experts seem to agree. The very best teachers ask the right questions.
  • Of course, that may be so, in theory, but nine-year-old girls are another story altogether!
  • A single word can stop a teacher in nothing flat.
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  • wahishaji 3/21/2008

    haha... that was a very apt answer! kids can be verybthought provoking at times... how did you react to that?? I would have fallen on the floor laughing...

  • Elena H. 3/6/2008

    It would be interesting to find out HOW the little one thought constipation helped her know right from wrong!

  • Rosa Hayes 3/6/2008

    how funny. I loved this

  • Lori Piper 3/5/2008

    another winner!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Charlie K 3/4/2008

    Kids often tell it like it is.

  • Linda Ann Nickerson 3/4/2008

    Gee . . . WHAT HAPPENED to the artwork here? It was much smaller and clearer when it loaded. ???

  • Steven West 3/2/2008

    Great article. Kids are truly unpredictable.

  • Aly Adair 3/2/2008

    What a great story. That is so nice that you taught at your church. Wonderful answers those kids gave! Thanks for the unique story topic.

  • Coffee Mugg 3/1/2008

    well it is good it started with CON instead of DIA; which of course would have been diaphram ....... lol. Good Job Miss Linda.ken

  • robritt 3/1/2008

    Children are fascinating as they are unfettered in their opinions and say it like it is. Too bad more adults were no that way. Nice article.

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