Choices and Concerns About Friends and Family in the Storm Ravaged South

Gayle Crabtree
The wrath of the storms is still being felt throughout the south. As daylight dawns, teams begin the arduous task of assessing damage. Flooding is a real and present danger. The death toll from the storms has already begun.

Those of us who are in the south know that the numbers will only increase in the coming days. Many of us wait for word on friends and family and brace for what that news might mean.

I live in Tennessee. The damage is lighter here than in other areas. In truth, if you are from the south you were either impacted by the storm or know people who are. That thought is sobering this morning.

One of my college age daughters hunkered with friends in a windowless second floor room. I worried for them she reported hail that was '˜as big as tennis balls'. They were lucky. She and her friends emerged fine and with stories to tell.

A college student on my daughter's campus is making a decision that no one wants to make. Does she make the 10 hour trek south to help her parents who lost their home or does she complete finals next week?

The irony that she is able to make the choice is inescapable. As of this writing there is no word about the college campus in Alabama. How many of those students have lost their homes is unknown. As of yet, there is no way to tell.

A friend is on his way to his parents and other family members who live a couple of hours away. He has already been told that the roadways near the subdivision are impassable. The only choice is to get as close as he can and then walk.

Physically, his family all seems to be fine. Their homes are damaged and one is possibly lost. The home of another friend no longer has front windows. His porch is destroyed but he and his family are also physically well.

In the grand scheme of things these family and friends are fortunate. Rejoicing is short lived. Our gladness is tempered by reports from others who did not fare so well. For who are waiting for word, rebuilding or grieving we send our thoughts and prayers; and we ask you to do the same.

Published by Gayle Crabtree

Gayle is an expert in budget and family travel. She is a trained mission team leader who has traveled extensively throughout the United States and Canada. Her road trips experiences include traveling with di...  View profile

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  • Lori Gunn5/3/2011

    fantastic writing - this is definitely a time of tough decisions.

  • R.C. Johnson5/3/2011

    I'm late reading this, but I have followed the news regarding the storms, and have been lifting up the people who have suffered and lost so much. Blessings to you and yours, and to those in your part of the nation. rcj

  • Mike Powers5/1/2011

    I continue to offer prayers for the people in these areas. Superb reporting on this. Well done!

  • Laura Cone4/29/2011

    thanks for update

  • Delicia Powers4/29/2011

    Our prayers !!!

  • NANCY CZERWINSKI4/29/2011

    My heart goes out to everyone involved in these storms! Wonderful article! Thanks for sharing! 5*
    God Bless and keep you and your family safe!

  • Carol Roach4/28/2011

    I pray for all of you, makes me glad I live in Montreal, the worst thing we get is a snow storm and we still work and go out in the storm and nobody dies or their house is not ruined because of it and so on

  • Jack Wellman4/28/2011

    This is a very, very timely article and in our minds and prayers for this part of the nation.

  • Han Van Meegerin4/28/2011

    Gayle, I am sorry I have not been around much. This one was certainly worth reading.

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