Choosing a Musical Instrument for Your Child: 3 Mistakes to Avoid

Practice Makes Perfect!

Dan Reveal
Because you are the kind of parent who wants to introduce your child to music, you will want to avoid these 3 mistakes in choosing a musical instrument for your child.

Mistake #1 Getting the Instrument Before Finding a Teacher

One of the earliest mistakes you can make when choosing a musical instrument for your child is to let the child pick an instrument for which no music lessons can be provided.

Why should a child develop an enthusiasm for a particular musical instrument when they have no chance to take lessons due to the lack of a qualified teacher?

Think of the cost involved if you'd have to send your child 100 miles away to the nearest person who gives lessons for that instrument.

Mistake #2 Buying the Instrument Before Renting it

This second mistake that can happen when choosing a musical instrument for your child is typically associated with your child's boredom.

It is always better to rent a musical instrument before buying it because you can't be aware in advance of any disadvantages that might surround a certain musical instrument.

For example, besides being bored with a certain instrument, children might find they have little aptitude for it. There can also be high maintenance costs to keep the musical instrument in good working order.

Lastly, the reactions of neighbors might be more negative toward the sound of amateur drum playing than the sound of a flute.

If you rent the drums, you can tell the neighbors your child is only experimenting.

Mistake #3 Mistaking Your Musical Interests for Your Child's

A final mistake that can occur when choosing a musical instrument for your child is to assume that your child's musical interests are similar to yours.

You might think it's ladylike for your daughter to play the piano, for example, when her true ability might be with another kind of musical instrument.

To avoid such a mistake in choosing a musical instrument for your child you have to be aware of your child's natural musical proclivities. It's important to discuss your child's musical ability with any available music teacher before choosing a musical instrument.

In sum, there are 3 mistakes to avoid when choosing a musical instrument for your child.

It's best to rent a musical instrument that a child can take lessons on before buying it. It's also important to understand a child's natural musical abilities and the musical instrument they are most suited for through discussions with a music teacher.


Published by Dan Reveal

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  • Shelly Barclay6/19/2011

    As always, your advice is compassionate. Children should be allowed to choose.

  • Lori Gunn6/14/2011

    Fantastic writing :)

  • Cindy Lynn6/13/2011

    Great advice, Dan! Renting is always a good idea, because you never know if your child will like the instrument until he's tried it for awhile.

  • Lori Gunn5/30/2011

    good work - thanks for sharing

  • Nancy P. Goodman, in Tennessee5/30/2011

    very good, thanks!

  • rmharrington5/30/2011

    As always, my friend, your advise is sound. Pun intended.

  • Melissa Matters5/30/2011

    Superb advice. I can imagine a lot of people make these mistakes.

  • Mike Powers5/30/2011

    I really enjoyed this outstanding article. Thanks!

  • Bridgitte Williams5/29/2011

    Loved this! :-) I believe in letting the child express an interest in learning music first. Let them choose the instrument. They will be more happy that way. If they need to change instruments, let them, within reason. A child truly interested in playing music will do so.

  • Shana Dines5/28/2011

    Very practical tips on choosing a musical instrument for your child. I think especially not choosing just what you would like to play or what you do play. Great article.

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