Chronicles of a Second Generation Psychic - Part 3

Developing Psychic Listening Skills

Deb Martin-Webster
In Western North Carolina, the culture is mostly southern lifestyle and country music. Last week I heard a country song called, "I Hear Voices" by Chris Young The lyrics, "You could say I'm a little bit crazy, you could call me insane, walkin' 'round with all these whispers, runnin' 'round here in my brain." I totally related to Chris Young's song. As a kid I thought I was crazy. I heard voices all the time. Voices of people I didn't know yet needed to be heard. I realized they were the voices of those who have passed over and were trying to communicate; to let their family members know they were okay. However as the year went by there was one voice, one I had become very familiar with - it was the voice of my spirit guide Mel.

I remember as a young child it was difficult for my parents to get me to sleep. They would put me into bed and I would lie awake for hours watching the street lights and listening to the sounds of the nearby traffic. It was during the summer months that I began hearing someone singing. I couldn't have been more than 5-years old but I remember singing the song along with them, however I didn't understand the words. My parents thought I was singing gibberish. It wasn't until I was in my late twenties while singing the song to my daughter a friend told me that it was a Danish lullaby called, "Den Lille Ole [med paraplyen]." Translated it means "The Little Sandman with the Umbrella." Her grandmother who was Danish sang it to her. I don't speak the language nor have I ever been to Denmark. The only explanation is that a spirit of someone from the country knew the tune and sang it to soothe me.

I honestly believe everyone has a level of psychic ability. It's just a matter of being able to listen not with your ears but with your inner-self or as some say listening with your mind's eye. Contradictory yes nonetheless listening is more than hearing. It's also feeling energy. As I stated in my first article I'm empathic. I can sense and interpret energy and put it into words and images. Here are a few suggestions that helped me develop and trust my psychic listening skills:

Relax: The first time I heard my spirit guide was during a Closed Eye Process. The lights were dim and the room was quiet. Our facilitator who was also a Yoga instructor asked us to close our eyes and breathe in through the nose and out through the mouth. I could feel my body sink into a state of total relaxation.

Identification: Mentally or verbally ask, "Is there anyone who would like to communicate with me." Take a deep breath and wait for a response. You may not receive an answer right away but keep trying. I remember being with my mother when she died. She said, "I can't hold on anymore I can't hold on!" I had to tell her that it was okay to let go. It was 11-months after her death before I could communicate with her. The week prior to what would have been her 67th birthday I heard her say, "Debbie, look after your dad; don't let him grieve his life away." I kept my promise. This year he celebrated his 92nd birthday.

Be Open: Expectations will affect your listening skills. You may want to hear from a deceased family member or spouse however they may not be ready to communicate with you. Patience is important. A deceased friend may choose to come through to communicate with you first or in my case a spirit guide. Listen to what they have to say and keep trying. The person you want to hear from will eventually come through.

Document: Whenever I do a reading I always tell the person to take written notes or to bring a recording device. I may tell you something that [at the time] does not make sense or an unfamiliar name or place. Documenting helps [you] to remember details of your psychic experiences; what you hear, feel and/or see. It will make sense later.

In part 4 of my chronicles I'll talk more about understanding and supporting your Psychic Child.

Missed the first two chronicles? Click Part 1 and Part 2 of Chronicles of a Second Generation Psychic

Published by Deb Martin-Webster

Originally from Pennsylvania, author/artist Deb Martin-Webster and her British husband Pete, currently live on a small farm near the Blue Ridge Mountains in North Carolina. They enjoy the simplicity of their...  View profile

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  • Deb Martin-Webster5/2/2012

    Most people are Wiley, thanks for the read and the comment.

  • Wiley Vaughn5/2/2012

    I'm a natural born skeptic!

  • Becca Badgett6/7/2011

    Interesting Deb.

  • Deb Martin-Webster4/26/2011

    Thanks James! And yes we have much in common . . . :)

  • James R. Coffey4/25/2011

    I am soooo enjoying this series! We have so much in common--which I'll reveal later!

  • Deb Martin-Webster4/23/2011

    Genie I totally enjoyed your Reiki article. I was told by a Reiki trainer that I had healing hands! My PA chiropractor used to let me work on his patients prior to adjusting them. It seem to help. I'm glad you are enjoying my articles!!

  • Deb Martin-Webster4/23/2011

    Thank you all for your comments! I'm happy my chronicles are helping people understand the nature of psychic ability. And as Donna stated, "Taking the scary out of it." Your acknowledgment is greatly appreciated!

  • Genie Walker4/23/2011

    Totally enjoyed reading this article.

  • Mike Oberg4/22/2011

    My spirit guide probably has laryngitis from yelling at me, because I can't hear him/her! I also have a low sensitivity to other subtle energies, like Mary uses in her healing work. But I am apparently able to generate a LOT of it -- I once created a deep burn on Mary's elbow, when she asked me to "put some heat on it". The burn was in the shape of my hand! That freaked me out.

  • Donna Cavanagh4/22/2011

    As usual Deb, this was just great. You have a great gift for not only knowing things, but for explaining how you know things. You take the scary out of it.

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