Closure for Men

by Dee - Love Solutions

This may be confusing time for the woman, the post break up behavior. You have returned his stuff. Not a thank you or message to say he received it. Nothing silences. He still has your stuff. Nothing is returned and not a word from him.

He broke things off. Closure is what he would want if he broke things off. So the woman thinks. If he returns your stuff then that is the last reason or connection he has to you. Full closure at that point and he knows it. So what does the man do that isn't 100% sure of his decision to leave the relationship. He does nothing!

Yes that is right. His doing nothing behavior speaks louder than words. The fool isn't sure he wants this. But of course will never admit that. So understand this is him keeping the door open. So the silence.....is it a bad thing? Not if the woman wants to reconcile with this man.

One of the most frustrating things a woman experiences post breakup is the man that said only a week ago he loved her, now is cold and distant. How can he shut off his feeling like that so quickly? She asks. She begins to think he really didn't care at all.

Well not true at all. He isn't cold and didn't wake up one day and decide he lost all feelings of love. It has more to with the way he processes his feelings. He will detach from his feelings to process them. Women process as we feel them. Men on the hand have to process by detaching, then slowly processing, like a delayed reaction. He really isn't that cold and his feelings aren't really all dead.

This will give some women hope in some cases of a chance of reconciliation. He may say move on or he is done, however chances are he is just detaching and then will be processing. Since he is not attached to how he really feels in his heart at the moment, and attached to the fact he has lost belief in the relationship, he will say negative things and push away. Loss of belief in relationship is not loss of love. However he may not realize the difference until he gets some time and space away from the relationship.

It is over and doesn't mean it is finito, it may just mean not right now!

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