Communication in Relationships

Without communication, a relationship is destined to fail. It is important that both parties are able to effectively communicate their thoughts. Too often, couples tend to feel like their partner should automatically know what they are thinking. Unfortunately, this is untrue and a definite recipe for disaster. Understanding the importance of communication is essential. There are basically three types of communication and they are verbal, non-verbal and written.

Verbal communication is the most common. At times, it can be very difficult to find the right words to express the thoughts a person has. Words can be very destructive if they are not chosen carefully. There is always a tactful way to say even the simplest of things. If a person doesn't say what they want or don't want, then their partner is in the dark about things. Without verbal communication, it is virtually impossible for either partner to be aware of likes and dislikes, their wants, needs or desires.

Non-verbal communication says more than verbal communication sometimes. The old adage that actions speak louder than words is very true. For example, if a couple is discussing something, and the one listening folds their arms in front of them, it means that the listener is not open to anything the other party has to say. It non-verbally closes off the conversation. If the talker looks off in another direction, it means they are not sincere in what they are saying. In these cases, the words say one thing, but the actions say more.

Written communication has been a very useful form of communication for centuries. This is the most widely used form of communication. Although most written communication is done more by the use of email, letters are still used. Sometimes, the very simplest and shortest written communications say the most. Words can paint a very vivid picture of the thoughts and feelings being conveyed.

Without any of these forms of communication, relationships will fail. People in relationships need feedback from each other. Without it, they will not know what the other partner expects from each other. This would be like walking through a maze blindfolded.