Comparison of Opposites

We live in a polar world. In order to create current it is necessary to have two opposite poles and create potential difference. That will create the flow of energy. For example not too long ago two countries USA and USSR were at the opposite poles and that tension has created the power that allowed them and the rest of the world to develop.

There is always someone in the group of people, who doesn't fit in that group. Other people of that group usually grow at the expense of such person. Probably we all have or had in the past someone whom we wanted to prove that we are right and he/she is wrong. Whenever one rival disappears from our life there is always another one to keep the balance.

The so-called law-abiding society - the majority - establishes the potential difference from criminals to develop at their own expense. Each family is also seeking to provide their own "monster" (saying "The family is not without a monster") to build on it and grow at his expense. This "monster", the criminals, alcoholics and losers turn into a sewage pit, which dropped its own waste "successful and correct", referring to himself something like: "I'm better, higher, smarter, successful, I do not want to be , I will do everything to become better;

But are you sure that your waste is dumped?

Are you growing at the expense of a "monster"?

Who defines it inside you?

Through these people you are trying to be higher fortunate, clever, educated. And you feel so. If you understand this, do not scold yourself and don't blame yourslef. This principle of our world that evolves through the division and strife. Just you so far in the other can not. Ask yourself:

How to grow in unity and love?

One man had older brother. We can not say that it was not too gay, but he drank, kept a hectic, in the conventional sense, a way of life, and drank a lot. The man was ashamed of his brother and tried not to communicate with him. The brother died suddenly. Only then this man understood what his brother meant to him and how he "grew" at his expense.

When a person leaves, there is nobody any more with whom we compare ourselves. Then the mind is cleared of definitions and assessments, and manifested the truth. By the way, it can be excellent exercise, which we can call exercise in unconditional love.

Look at the thoughts of who you're concerned about your family, at the very "monster". And now imagine that he would not be there. What would you think? What would you understand?

Many people are afraid to maximize their thoughts, believing that their wishes can be fulfilled - because the idea is to demonstrate outside. Do not be afraid to do so, because the use of subjunctive mood will not allow this to happen and you get an opportunity to get acquainted with the new state, which removed the conditions and assessment, which you can assume imposed. Then you see the real person is a person with whom an been compared.

One woman had drinking mother, a long time, since she remembers herself. Now this woman is a successful businesswoman, she has a good family, apartment and all that comes with it, but she does not want to have anything to do with her mother, so hard she hurt her. When we talked with her, she was unable to understand that the well-being, it is bound to his mother that grew by subconscious competition with it. She was unable to understand that the mother has sacrificed herself for the sake of it.

People are starting to drink, go to jail or leave the house for a variety of reasons. Do you have relatives or friends? Remember how you feel when they hurt you and you or unintentionally offended, especially if they hit into your sore spot. And when your child does not pays attention to you, insults your, ignores you? But there are thoughts that people think about you. They are even more painful and devastating than words and actions. All this can accumulate inside your, negative emotions and desire to at least somehow make it difference. Now you can understand why these people are frustrated, drunk, leaving the house, becoming "waste of society"