Confessions of a Cheating Husband

I will attempt to put the words of a confessed cheater in this article as I hear them. I spent 3 hours talking with this individual and listening to his tale. You however will be able to read it on only a few minutes.

Ron was a decent looking guy. Not great, but not bad either. Ron got married when he was twenty-one, ten years ago. Ron admits to cheating on his wife even before they were married. He says that although he loves his wife more than anything else one woman is not enough for him. Ron works as a salesman and says that the job makes it really easy for him to pick up women. Many of the women he approaches are younger than he is and seem to be looking for attention. Ron gladly steps in to give that attention to them for as long as it takes to get what he really wants....to have sex with them. After a few weeks Ron says he grows distant toward the new object of his affection thinking more and more about his wife and the relationship he has with her. Guilt sets in and eventually Ron breaks it off with whoever he was cheating on his wife with.

I asked Ron if he thought he was addicted to sex, or addicted to having women fall in love with him and his reply was he didn't know, had never thought about it. I told Ron that in my opinion something was not right in his head if he had to have woman after woman when he had a beautiful and wonderful wife at home. I asked him if he had ever thought about going to marriage counseling and trying to create a relationship with his wife that was fulfilling enough to satisfy his urges and again received the answer of no, he had never though about doing those things. Ron said all and all he was happy with his life. His wife trusted him completely and he was sure he could continue to keep his family together and continue his recreational activities on the side and neither would be none the wiser.

After our conversation I felt really bad for Ron's wife. She seemed like a good woman and I felt that what Ron was doing really disrespected her greatly. I have often thought over these past couple of months since the conversation what I could do to help this woman and other women who might be in the same situation. Perhaps this article will get some of you ladies out there to thinking again and making sure your man is true to you and you only.