Confidence is Sexy

Ever met a woman who managed to turn heads without ideal measurements in tact? Maybe she had a lot of troube filling her bikini out. Maybe she was born with a clown nose, a cleft lip or some other abnormality. Imagine a skinny mini with the perfect body being dumped in favor of a heftier model. In a socially challenged society this just doesn't happen right? Think again.

Beauty is after all isn't only skin deep. Ten years ago a local waitress made my acquaintance and she taught me a valuable lesson about beauty and femininity.She was six feet tall and over two hundred pounds, yet it seemed every man in town was after her. So, what was it about this larger than average lady? For one thing she was all glam and if you do it right this can work. She had an air of confidence about her which worked magnetically with the opposite sex. Even though she wasn't exactly petite her body somehow fit her well. Reasonably sexy clothes didn't hurt either. Skirts just above the knee, silk tops and lady like shoes make all the right moves.

Cute girls you're about to get let in on a secret. The only thing seperating you from your inner hot mama is the essence you may be holding back. First of all, how do you know you're not getting the attention deserved? Let's put it this way. If your less attractive girl friends get more action than you do it's not your appearance that's getting in the way. Do the best looking guys make you nervous instid of excited while the ordinary guys generally say you're the hottest girl they've ever gone out with? Do you feel that perhaps girls who aren't as pretty as you sometimes know more about fashion, hair and make-up? That's partly because they have to know more in order to compete with natural beauty. Take some quality advice and discover your hidden goddess. Even if a few tips aren't going to transform you into a super model due to height or weight the following ideas are a good start.

Beauty is the in the eye of she who holds the key to her closet. Sweats are fine for lounging, but even then pull your hair back or give it a quick spray. Throw on some lip stick and maybe a dab of eye make-up. You're ready to run your errands. Ever notice the woman who can doll up blue jeans and a sweat shirt? She usually either has a boyfriend or is about to have one reguardless of her size. The one thing men ignore is dullness. This doesn't mean you can't be all natural. Even just a little shine applied to the lips with your hair neatly groomed can give you
a needed edge. Ditch the stringy hair. Pull it back! If you have thin hair by nature pull it back even if you just pull the front back a bit with barrettes. This totally impacts and livens up your look. You'll go from shabby to sheik.

Attitude is everything. He may miss out on a truly sweet girl if she's hiding behind something. Over sized t-shirts can sometimes work if done right. I've known a few women who were complete knock outs in sports wear, but it's because they did it right. The recipe includes a trendy t-shirt such as Niki, a bra made for you, jeans that fit right even if you prefer to wear them a little baggy [they can still fit], a clean face with or without make-up, and jewelry if you so choose to go bling.

Another thing you may forget from time to time... The man who's married to a glossy blond may appreciate a dressed down version once in awhile. On the other hand, if you're sporty or casual, buy at least one dress. Even if you're married to Brad Pitt your jaw might drop if Tom Seleck walked in. Men are no different. Get into his head. He's in yours.

Confidence is sexy. It's the one thing he'll allow you to wear to bed. Never forget that confidence can make or brake you. So, go be magnetic! And have fun.