Confidence in Yourself and a Woman's Desire

Confidence is the number one attractant for women. This is an undisputed fact, actually. Men often forget this. When it comes to meeting women online or in person, there is one thing that sets apart the men who get emails, texts, phone numbers, and ultimately, hot dates from the men who sit at home, wishing the women they are emailing would write them back. Women just seem to know when a man is lacking in this area.

Self-deprecation is not sexy

How is a woman supposed to respond when you are putting yourself down? The fact is, she will be looking at you and wondering if what you just said is true. When you put yourself in a deprecated position, a woman will have no choice but to see you as such. Simply, women just cannot date someone they pity.

Fishing for compliments falls under this category. One difference between man and women is that men think and act, women feel and use their emotions. Woman will definitely compliment you if it is deserved, do not fish. The truth is, just because she has not complimented you verbally does not mean that she has not complimented you mentally. Before a woman, completely opens up to you, in that manner, she will quietly take stock and note on the different things you are expecting compliments on. Be patient, Padawan, if she is still talking to you, then she was not turned off.

Positive Thinking

If you are allowing thoughts of rejection to creep into your mind, how will you expect her not to reject you? Rejection is not just verbal; it shows in body language as well. Do not doubt that if you have already set yourself up for rejection, then you have only guaranteed it. In this factor, dating really is like the wild. Appearing weak and rejected will most likely get you chewed up.

If you are a confident man, then you know that women will want to date you, why give them the impression that you are even capable of being rejected? Yes, it may seem like an annoying trait bordering on arrogance, but the truth is they will begin to wonder what is so magnetic about you and begin to try to figure that out. What that means is she will pursue you.

Be It and Believe It

This is the key right here. Even if you find yourself having trouble with the first two tips, fake it. Say what? Yes, you want to fake the confidence. The more you fake it, and the more attention you receive, the less you will find yourself faking it and women believing it. Consider confidence as though it was your dating muscle. It starts out small, but as you exercise it, it increases and grows stronger. This muscle is the most important tool in your search for a relationship. Confidence will get you everywhere.

Do you ever wonder why some not-so-good-looking guys tend to be with some pretty amazing women? The fact is they acted as if they had confidence until they did. Next time you are looking at a guy and wondering how the heck he got with that girl on his arm, you will need to remember this - He either paid for her time, or he acted really confident.