Create a Connection with Anyone Instantly

We have been told all sort of ways to connect with people when we meet them, but what if you could form a bond with someone before we even met them? The following exercise does exactly that, but also serves many other purposes. This exercise leaves us with a feeling of connectedness with the people around us (or a certain individual), even if we do not know them. This exercise will start to break down many problems we face in our life which are related to social situations. It will also remove that feeling of "being alone in a crowded place."

After you have really done this exercise, even the first time, you can't help but feel a little better, a little more at ease and a lot closer to the person you "connect" with. The more you do it, the more connected and at ease you will feel with the people that flutter through your life (as well as those that stay). The other person will also feel more connected to you, although they may not consciously know why.

I encourage you try to this exercise, even if you don't believe it will work. Similar exercises have been widely accepted, and also written about in psychology, hypnosis, self-hypnosis and books on building relationships.

Connecting Exercise

When you are in a public space, alone, and are able to sit in the vicinity of others, focus on one person. Obviously do not stare or make them uncomfortable, but simply allow your eyes to absorb what they look like - their demeanor, expressions, eyes, and anything else about their physicality, but more importantly the "energy" they seem to produce. Do not judge any of this. Simply observe.

Imagine a beam of white light connecting you with this person. Based on what you have observed, imagine their life experience. What things might they deal with a daily basis? Are these similar to what you deal with? How do you think your lives are similar? What might make them happy? What would make them sad? Could you sense any of these emotions?

As you begin to connect to this person, realize this person, though unique, is another spiritual being on a similar journey as you. They may be at a different point in their journey, but we all end up at the same place eventually. We are all connected to each other and are connected to the same source.

Once you feel connected to this person, send this person positive energy and goodwill through the white light connecting you. Embrace them in love, for this stranger has similar struggles and desires as you.

Open your eyes and if your eyes happen to meet with this person smile at them.

You have just forged a powerful link to another person. They may not consciously know that it happened, but they will be more drawn to you. It also opens you up personally, so that you are more open to any actual encounter that may occur. On top of this, the exercise will make you more comfortable in actually approaching the person, and the person will likely be more comfortable in approaching you.

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