Creating a Positive Mindset that Will Rock the World

Building a Positive Mindset Guaranteed to Ensure a Fantastical Lifestyle

Evan Tooley
A positive mindset is not a myth. When considering our state of being within our own lives and within the world we exist in, our mindset is often the most neglected. Which is really sad because it is not an important part of that whole, rather the most critical part.

Our ability to live, love, work and prosper is almost entirely formulated by our mindset. So what is this mythical entity that guarantees empowerment and teaches us how to be successful?

Your mindset is the psychological lens through which you view all things in your life. Just as in the practice of photography, your choice of lens can distort, add or subtract perspective from the subject matter. And yes, it is your choice.

You get to choose whether you are going to view life in fish-eye, macro or telephoto lens. That is probably one of the most important defining factors in the success, or lack thereof, we experience throughout our lives.

Consider this. How many times do you read of or see cases of people subjected to immense hardship, deprivation or physical injury that pull through against all odds? What do you think it is about those individuals that enables them to overcome seemingly insurmountable adversity? Mindset. That's right, mindset. The "can do" attitude and the will to survive and overcome.

Many times during your life, you encounter situations that are combinations of circumstance, fate or human intervention that seem dead set on undoing all your best efforts. The only thing that will surely dictate whether they do is your mindset. You don't have to fall victim to the negativity and accidents of life.

You have a choice, you have an undeniable personal empowerment to forge your own path. It is not your boss, family or friends that dictate your path in life. It's not the economic climate, the state of the nation that makes you successful. It is that positive mindset, that "I can", go for broke approach to all facets of your life that will set you apart as a mover and shaker. Your future, your success lies firmly in your hands or rather your mindset.

Creating your dynamic mindset

No obstacles, only challenges. How many times have we all heard this often cliched term? Overworked as it may be, this is probably the most significant definer of the positive, successful mindset. Your entire life is a constant roller coaster of success and failure. In the greater scheme of things they are an integral part of the process of living and cannot exist apart.

We often tend to think of successful people as being lucky because we perceive them as somehow being spared all life's downs. Nothing could be further from the truth as they have usually overcome serious adversity unseen. Unseen because, apart from learning from them, they don't allow those downs to become influential factors in their life path. And in that lies the truth about the element of empowerment we all have when choosing how we reacted and dealt with life's challenges.

Life success through a life changing, positive mindset is no myth. It is possible and it's easy once you have reached a point where you accept that you are the ultimate steward of your life and in absolute control.

OK, So How do I obtain a positive mindset?

A positive mindset is an emotion. Emotions are basically chemical reactions that take place in our bodies in response to our environment. To create a lasting positive mindset you have to understand that emotions aren't a mirror of you as an individual, but rather a simple physical reaction not unlike shivering when the temperature drops.

If you can learn to isolate yourself from these reactions and step outside the emotion to calmly evaluate the cause, you are well on your way. The cause should be addressed rather than trying to overcome the emotion it elicits as this often leads to a self destructive, irrational cycle of emotions.

You should always try to figure out the most efficient way to get the root cause of your emotional reactions sorted out before you surrender to them. This is an absolutely empowering experience and a positive, dynamic mindset is a sure result thereof.

Once you have learned to be objective about your emotional reactions, you can start to work on the next, and perhaps most important step on the road to a positive mindset, loving yourself!

Yep, you heard correctly, love yourself! Now, before you start building wax dolls here, I'm not promoting narcissism. You can, however, never build a positive mindset based on a negative self image. "Love yourself" can not be emphasized enough. Trust your abilities, instincts and decisions because, just as in personal relationships, love cannot exist in the absence of trust.

You need to reassure yourself on an ongoing basis, that you are fantastical.

You can overcome any challenge and achieve any goal. And you can achieve your goals, whatever they may be. Whether they are related to business, relationships or personal growth, you can do anything you set your mind to.

This is illustrated every day in a hundred ways around us by others. If they can do it, so can you. This is the core belief that will carry you on to a positive mindset and enriched personal presence.

Now that I have a positive mindset, what do I do with it?

Once you have learned to disassociate yourself from your emotions and have an unshakable faith and trust in yourself, you have all the makings of a positive mindset. So where to from here? Forward Jeeves, always forward.

You will now find that dealing with the challenges life throws at you is a breeze. You will discover that your personal relationships are more balanced and fulfilling and professional ones more productive.

Anger, frustration and disappointment will start to play an ever decreasing role in your life and your new found positive mindset will be you getting where you want to be quicker and with less effort.

This all sound improbable? Forget it, these states of mind are not only achievable but easily so. And the rewards are so great that no effort should be spared in pursuing them! The positive mindset is, arguably, the most critical weapon we have in our arsenal of life skills and the one that will ensure success, happiness and inner peace every time.

Best wishes and BE POSITIVE!

Published by Evan Tooley

Evan Tooley is a lifestyle photographer, writer, and a digital nomad. He once heard that all you need is love. In addition to that, he also needs a cold glass of fresh coconut water and a trip to Gulf Sho...  View profile

  • Your mindset is the psychological lens through which you view all things in your life.
  • Our ability to live, love, work and prosper is almost entirely formulated by our mindset.
  • You don't have to fall victim to the negativity and accidents of life.

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