Dads Can Easily Lose Child Custody with Divorce
When they go from being a full-time dad to the every other weekend dad. This usually occurs after the temporary child custody hearing handed down by the judge. Then they sit around dumbfounded that this actually happened to them. They once had this panacea that our American Legal System would never take away their rights as an EQUAL parent.
If you have not lost your parental rights yet, you may want to support the efforts of those who only ask for EQUALITY in parenting. If you are currently labeled the dreaded non-custodial parent, you better WAKE UP and start joining those who seek to be EQUAL parents to their children.
Stop watching the damn sports and the current episode of The Office! Spend some time educating yourself on why so many dads and also non-custodial moms are seeking what is best for their children. Children need to be loved, guided, nurtured and educated by BOTH fit parents. Children benefit from shared parenting or what some may call equal parenting.
Benefits of Shared Parenting
Did you know that states and family court systems PROFIT from the creation of a non-custodial parent? Silly! You actually thought that the 30 minute custody evaluation was truly for the best interest of the children? States and family court systems make a killing on Title IV-D federal incentives.
Learn about the corrupt nature of Title IV-D
Any dad with a pulse should support efforts such as this:
EQUAL Parenting Bike Trek.
So tell me...are dads dumb? When will they wake up? Even after they are only allowed to see their children 4-6 days a month, many do nothing to but accept this fate. How sad this story is and it gets repeated every day by the thousands!
Will this wake you up?
Wake Up! Dad #1
Or perhaps this?
Wake Up! Dad #2
Darn it! Well whenever you do decide to wake up we are here for you.
Dads are not dumb!
Children who live absent their biological fathers are, on average, at least two to three times more likely to be poor, to use drugs, to experience educational, health, emotional and behavioral problems, to be victims of child abuse, and to engage in criminal behavior.
Source: McLanahan, Sara L. "Life without Father: What happens to the children?"
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9 Comments
Post a CommentJodie
Your comments are insensitive to men.You sound like a real man hater.Merry Christmas and a happy go to hell!
jodie your an idiot
Jodie if you didnt uderstand what I went through please dont judge me in an indirect way.I can read through the lines very well.I am in awe you are god and know me so well
Please remember, or perhaps I should say, understand, that a child of divorced parents is not suffering from an "absent" father; as long as children have a relatively consistent awareness of both mom and dad, they dont have to suffer. The "studies" that have been dont to show that children of divorce are 2-3 times more likely to....are worthless. There is NO WAY to determine the exact origin of deviant behavior; there are simply far too many possibilities. Shared parenting is when a child has two parents; it has nothing, if anything, to do with whether or not said parents live under the same roof. Divorce is not hard on kids, parents are hard on kids. These parents who use the kids to get back at the other are the culprit; this usually manifests itself in such ways as not letting you see them, placing heavy restrictions on time with them, etc. Except in instances where one parent is guarding the welfare of the child (doesnt think the child is safe around the other parent), this is
As I lay here and recall what I wrote one year ago.I still try,I still hope,I still won't give up.Where ever you both are,pleaase know,I love you and I can never stop being an absent father.Neither you can either of you be but absent adult children.
After my divorce I realized that being a once a week dad and talking to my children was a losing battle.After they turned 18 and I moved I saw and heard from them less and less.It got to the point their lives didnt need me in it.The phone number was changed.A get together before they went away vanished.Communication is still one sided.I send letters and cards and gifts hoping that they will call me.I send this to their mothers house adressed to them hoping to get somewhere.It goes nowhere.I miss them I will always write.Ill never stop.Even though 3 yrs have passed with no reply I still love them.If I could see them now I would not be angry or even hurt.I would love to just meet them,catch up on our lives and try to build a new foundation.Somewhere we lose their trust with a lack of time and distance fades us away.I know you may think Im a fool to keep trying with no replys but as long as i live i will still try.
It's sad how the rights of fathers have eroded. It used to be the opposite 100 years or so ago. If a couple divorced, the father kept custody of the children and the mother was the one left out in the cold.
Sophie
When it comes to abortion, women protest loudly 'my body my choice'.
When it comes to a live child, whether the choice be adoption, custody, medical decisions, where to live, schools, etc - they claim this is STILL so- since they 'gave birth'.
Motherhood- it's like ownership !
This comes back to the abortion debate, in all reality. Dad's, Male's..are not considered equal to women in this aspect..and nobody really like to mention that fact because of other social aspects, thusly this becomes a justification of this inequality. A fetus for all purposes is half the property of the male, and female. It takes one of each to make one fetus. The only reason females are given such dominion is because she incubates it, period. If man wants the child, woman does not...she can abort...man doesn't want the child..she does...oh well he's out of luck..funny if he can't make her get rid of the child..how is it equal to make him be a father is he wishes not to be..after all she still has the option of abortion, or adoption right? It only works out and is truly fair when both want the fetus, or both do not...but no one has logically tossed political correctness to the side and addressed the 1 for 1 against scenario's.