Damaging the Male Ego

Please acknowledge my intentions respectively, as though I may disagree with the associated article in CNN Living, in no shape, form, fashion, or style do I criticize it. After all, individual opinion is primarily based on perception, which aptly provides for contrastingly separate characteristics, beliefs, etc. Unfortunately though, I fail to agree with the attached article. Am I alone, or is the associated author simply a sensitive male? Do the cited sources damage your male egotism?

1. Treat him like he's poor: I, personally, fail to understand the aforementioned statement. Unless I have been recently introduced or am engaged in a first date, I enjoy when the female companion often offers to pay for dinner or a movie. Though few first dates attempt to purchase their own meals, etc., I am definitely not offended, nor egotistically damaged. The attempt is actually refreshing and proves respectful.

2. Laugh during sex: Though this rarely happens, I find it blasphemous and odd. I do not, however, assume it is an insult. Moments similar to these sporadically occur, and I, too, am guilty. I must agree, though, that laughing during sex will undoubtedly offend the female more than the male. The male is typically intent on satisfying his own needs rather than attempting to shy from visible discouragement.

3. Insult his job or line of work: This may succeed older generations. I, however, am a mere 24 years of age and criticize my own career choice daily. Taking pride in reforming to society and indulging in typical work routine is rarely satisfying. It simply provides payment for the rent and additional activities we partake among. Luckily though, I am fortunate enough to have security in employment, especially in a drastic economy.

4. Comparing him to an athlete, etc: This statement is legit in my own perspective. Though the majority of males are not as sensitive as their female companion, comparisons to former boyfriends, famous people, and others can develop jealousy and guilt. I, too, fail to perform 100 pushups, never obtained a degree in law or medicine, and am not closely distinguished with celebrity status. Remarks that glorify the aforementioned individuals can easily damage your typical male ego. After all, such comments can lower self esteem and lead to assumptions that the female seeks more reputable company. These statements can prove hurtful. What do you think?

CNN Living (2010). 9 ways to unintentionally bruise a man's ego. Retrieved Jan 13, 2010 from http://www.cnn.com/2010/LIVING/personal/01/12/tf.damage.male.ego/index.html