Dangerous Relationships

Don't Insist on a Mistake

Christina Sponias
I received two dreams from a young boy who saw a nightmare and was afraid about its meaning. The first dream explained the second one, which was the nightmare.

His biography also confirmed and explained his dreams. This is why we have to know a few details about the dreamer's life in order to properly translate his or her dreams.

His story is somehow complicated, because his dreams revealed the existence of a neurotic tendency in his behavior. So, his dreams are not simple dreams, like the ones I mentioned before.

When we observe a neurotic characteristic, the dream indispensably needs translation and the dreamer indispensably needs psychotherapy.

In his first dream he sees his girlfriend sad and he kisses her, ending up kissing her passionately, but awakening up with a weird feeling that he couldn't say that was love...

In the second dream he sees himself very violently hitting a person he should love, and feeling regret in the end.

What had happened?

He is a teen and he has a girlfriend. However, he doesn't love her. She loves him and he accepted to "give her a try".

In the first dream it is obvious that he kisses his girlfriend only because she is sad, to comfort her. He kisses her passionately without loving her, simply because he started kissing her and got in the mood...

In the second dream he sees the result of his absurdity. In the end he will only feel revolted for wasting his time being with a girl that he doesn't really love, only because she loves him, and he will be cruel with her. This is what the dream was clearly reflecting.

She doesn't let him find the girl that would really make him happy and he simply accepts this situation.

Someday he is going to explode...

I wrote him many explanations, advising him to stay single and look for a girl that won't let him doubt if he really loves her or not.

This is a very serious question! If you have a relationship without feeling that you love the person you are with, don't go ahead!

Don't insist on a mistake, because the consequences are very bitter.

This was a simple example, and yet, so true. I can relate many similar cases, where you'll verify that the person makes serious mistakes only because they are too ignorant. And then they become victims of craziness and despair, doing terrible things against others and against themselves...

One mistake leads to another, one bad event provokes another and in the end, we see teens committing suicide without any apparent reason.

Relationships with wrong people are very dangerous!

Be very careful with what you do with your life and be very serious in your decisions.

Life is not a toy, and the consequences of an insignificant mistake could be very grave.

Published by Christina Sponias

Christina Sponias continued Carl Jung's research into the human psyche, discovering the cure for all mental illnesses. Learn more at http://www.scientificdreaminterpretation.com  View profile

  • His dreams revealed the existence of a neurotic tendency in his behavior.
  • In the second dream he sees himself very violently hitting a person he should love.
  • Don't insist on a mistake, because the consequences are very bitter.

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  • Allana Calhoun (Tink)1/29/2010

    Makes sense!

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