Dating Advice for Young Men and Women

Finding the right young man or woman to go out with today can be difficult for those wanting to meet down to earth, decent and compatible people. However, my general advice is to be patient, build your life and become independent. For most young people, becoming obsessed with relationships can actually be like putting the cart before the horse. Let's look at some important considerations.

Why Dating Sites and Bars are not a Good Idea

Dating organizations usually represent an ambitious, contrived or willful way of living, in my opinion. During the course of one's work, social life and everyday affairs, there should be opportunities to meet people. If they don't come up, then the timing may not be right.

I personally believe there is such a thing as faith and a natural course of events in people's lives. Without saying a lot more, dating sites seem to be a way of circumventing that.

The same, of course, holds true for bars and nightclubs, where people are at their phoniest and most don't have a lot of character. What sort of a man or woman would really be into this, for the most part?

What Young Women Should Look for, and Where Most Young Men Have Dropped the Ball

I know there must be a basic physical attraction or personality factor that would attract women to men. It would probably include being handsome, athletic or possibly a singer like Elvis. From a fatherly perspective, I would suggest looking for some other traits that extend beyond the surface.

It is most sad that a lot of men mostly care about sex, and they do not believe in the principle of waiting until marriage. It has pretty much become the new standard in society, but it is one of the main reasons tragedies and sufferings occur in relationships. I wrote a lot about this in my article, "5 Secret Reasons Why Marriages Fail."

Ideally, a young woman should look for a man who sets the primary moral standard, which has to do with not using her. This, of course, would be as difficult as finding a hen with teeth. Usually, people believe that sex should occur within so many dates. For men, it's usually one or two (or possibly zero), and for women it's usually 3 or 4. All of this, however, is not logical if you'll pardon my saying so. Girls should resolve keep their purity, and to look for rare men who have the highest integrity. By the time most people read this, they've probably been around the world a dozen times. Nevertheless, it is possible to start your life over, so to speak.

How to Excel as a Young Man and Rise Above the Inhabitants of the Sea of All Alike

Hopefully, you will have read the above advice I gave to girls and relate to it. The fact is that most men are cut from the same mold. With all due respect, they tend to be selfish and have bought in completely to the liberal way of life.

To compound the problem, there is a stigma to a man being principled and honorable. Let's look at the following considerations.

1. Such a man is labeled a so-called "virgin." Even though most dictionaries give a secondary definition with that word that includes a man, I suggest that editors have erred and that the word should not apply.

2. Such a man is considered weak, naïve, inexperienced, not a real man, not a good lover, not a good fighter and weird.

3. There are a lot of girls who actually believe this, secretly or otherwise and will not appreciate your true inner strength and love. I suggest, however, that they are in the vast minority and that you'll be a prized catch for most.

4. Every decent young man who has the opportunity should become a student of the fighting arts, so that he can fully stand for his principles and not become overshadowed by clods.

I don't believe I have to say a lot more, and I believe most have gotten the message. People will either hate what I've brought forth or love it.

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