Dating Safety Tips: Three Benefits of Group Dating

V.C. Higuera
1. Relieves Nervousness

First date anxiety is normal. However, if unable to control nervousness, the first date might become your last. Group dating is very common in other parts of the world. Teenagers and young adults would go on dates with two or three couples. This way, the couples could keep a close eye on each other. Furthermore, the setting contributed to a relaxed atmosphere, wherein each person was able to remain calm and be themselves. One of the biggest first date complaints is "nervousness." Even if you have spoken to the person on several occasions, the first date will either make or break the relationship.
Since people respond better in a laid-back environment, a casual date with a few friends can ease worries. Perfect group date locations include the bowling alley, restaurant, beach, or small house party. The twosome can intermingle with the group, and enjoy a little private conversation.

2. Observe the Person's Fun Side

Many first dates involve dinner and a movie. The couple likely goes to a posh restaurant and speaks very eloquently the entire evening. With a group date, the couple is free to let their guard down and have fun. Planning a game night is great for a group date. Games such as Taboo and Battle of the Sexes encourage loudness and fun. This way, the twosome can observe each other's personality early. The future of the relationship should not be based on one game night. Nonetheless, a person's behavior can reveal a lot about their personality. For example, was your date overly competitive? Perhaps he or she demanded several re-counts and displays poor sportsmanship. On the other hand, the date could have been too hyper, which may not harmonize with your laid-back demeanor.

3. Fewer Temptations and Pressures

Before going out on a first date, each person should establish their personal boundaries. For example, do you kiss on the first date? How do you view heavy petting? If you want to avoid certain temptations and pressures, group dating is perfect. Of course, you must stay with the group. Wandering off to find a secluded spot is not a good idea. It is more difficult for some people to resist urges. In this case, ask a trusted friend to be your wing man, (or woman), for the night. If he or she observes anything which could lead to sexual behavior, they should intervene immediately.

Published by V.C. Higuera

Freelance personal finance and health writer from Chesapeake, VA  View profile

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  • Anonymous6/1/2008

    Pro...I used some of it for my health project. I would definitely go for group dating!

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