Dating a Scorpio Woman

Sass Ashe
Scorpio is thought to be one of the more intriguing signs of the zodiac. They are associated with passion, death, the occult and psychic matters. This could lead you to believe that dating a Scorpio woman could be rather difficult.

You can picture yourself wrapped in one dramatic scene after another, dealing with jealous rages and murderous tendencies. This however is not the case, once you understand where she is coming from you can have a wonderful relationship with a Scorpio woman no matter what your sign is.

To address some of the facets of a Scorpio woman you must have an open mind and be willing to think outside the box in order to relate, understand, and learn to deal with her twisted Scorpio way of thinking.

Loving a Scorpio woman can be like walking through a minefield. A Scorpio woman, when she finds someone to love, loves completely. She is very passionate, loyal, giving, loving and also very jealous. She has difficulty trusting but once you have her trust and love you will be treated to the full joy of her passion.

If you somehow betray her trust or hurt her feelings she is very prideful and will not take the slight laying down. She will retaliate, after all a scorpion doesn't have a stinger just to look dangerous, it is there for a reason.

They say "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned" but in the case of a Scorpio woman even the demons of hell should run when she gets her temper up. Vengeance is her forte and she will execute her plan when you least expect it. The initial blowup is nothing compared to what will come later.

Scorpio women, while being easily irritated and spiteful are also very self confident. While wary of other women on the scene, she probably won't lose her mind if you appreciate the looks of another woman. Acting on the appreciation is what will put you on her naughty list. Although when you have a woman as passionate, and willing to explore and experiment as a Scorpio woman other women probably won't even hit your radar.

Dating a Scorpio woman isn't for the faint of heart. She likes to explore all of her options whether in the bedroom or the boardroom. A Scorpio woman is determined and likes to be the best at whatever she does. She tends to be artistic and imaginative, while also being analytical and detail oriented. Your Scorpio woman isn't a flighty sex siren, a career minded shrew, or an emotional bundle of nerves, in fact she can play all of these roles and many more.

Secrets are a major part of a Scorpio woman; there are things that you won't know about her no matter how much time you spend with her. This isn't a reflection on your relationship; after all if you are in a relationship with her then you have passed quite a few tests that you weren't even aware of and she trusts you. It is simply a Scorpios way of protecting herself and maintaining her individuality.

If you are looking for a woman to become a clone of you, liking and disliking the same things as you, being a yes woman who is pliable and easy to be with then you definitely shouldn't date a Scorpio woman. This is a woman who hates being told what to do, she dislikes when someone thinks they know more than she does or tries to tell her she is wrong.

She won't be the one to sit at home while you are out with the boys night after night, she will either be out with the girls or she will put her foot down and demand your attention. A Scorpio woman is exciting, fascinating, sexy and fun, but she can also be demanding, stubborn, proud, vengeful, sneaky and brooding. She has the potential to be destructive and hateful.

The best thing about a Scorpio woman is that she is unapologetic for all of these qualities, she revels in her independence, and likes that others fear her anger. Power is an aphrodisiac for a Scorpio woman and she looks for a man who is strong enough to take her as she is without wanting to change her most basic instincts.

The worst thing you can do to a Scorpio woman is break her trust or try to intimidate her. She will rebel, and dig her heels in firmly to fight any change or rules you institute; a Scorpio woman is not one to be led around like a puppy on a leash. She is strong in her own right; you and your personal strength are simply an embellishment in her life.

However you are an important part of her life, never doubt that. Even though she is not vocal about how much she needs you, if you are observant you will see that she shows you daily that you are important to her. The Scorpio woman has a mastery of words, but prefers to show her emotions through her actions, she believes that words are a dime a dozen.

If you are ready for an intense, passionate, deeply loving relationship, with complete trust and lots of adventure then maybe you are ready to date a Scorpio woman.

Source: Wikipedia, Elore.com, Astrology.com

Published by Sass Ashe

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  • Andi 4/18/2011

    I used to think being a typical hot fiery Scorpio was something to be proud of, but having been stung a few times I would have to say that the Scorpio needs to learn to be a lot more gentle as quite often the only one you end up hurting is yourself, esp. in love. Those wicked possessive and jealous tendencies do nothing to endear others. Change yourself before you seek to change others. This Scorpio lady has learned a lot in the past few years.

  • Langley Cornwell 2/24/2011

    Fun read. I am a stereotypical Leo woman.

  • Debbie Henthorn 2/19/2011

    These comments are great! I'm not a Scorpio but I've known a few...spot on!

  • Karen Sanders 2/19/2011

    I am laughing as I read this because I am a Scorpio woman and virtually everything you wrote is absolutely spot on! Great job!

  • Donald Pennington 2/18/2011

    My sign is "Buy One, Get One Free."

  • Terry 2/12/2011

    I am a Cancer man and I finally found a Scorpio woman. I`m not clingy and I am not afraid to make the first move. I ‘ve been flirting with her for months, she knows I like her. I have landed a date with her this Sunday. I want to make her my Valentine.
    Am I going too fast? I don’t think I’m the only one on her list.

  • Victoria 12/28/2010

    Well done.
    Very true.
    Coming from a Scorpio Woman.

  • Natalie 12/23/2010

    Everything is so true in this article. I am a Scorpio myself. I can read people, I can feel emotions, nobody can control me. It is also true that we, Scorpios test people. I think that Scorpios are the best of all signs!

  • Greg Mckinney 12/12/2010

    Read this article, very true. Wish I read this months ago....

  • Magena Fawn 10/24/2010

    I'm a scorpio woman too. Many truths here. I sure can swing from one mood to another.

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