Dating a Smart Beautiful Woman

Asking out a SBW or smart beautiful woman is tricky at best. I know because I am one. Often men's advances have included grabbing for the goods, so far this hasn't worked for me. Why you shouldn't try this approach is obvious. You might get slapped, or maced. As a single complicated woman with a brain, it might be best to let her warm up to you rather than going for a home run right away. Although I have heard that some women are very easy, and have no self respect, if you want a chance with someone who is caring, this might not be a good approach.

Also, it helps to care about someone, and take your time, which can improve your relationship. While there are many women out there, remember that the one your with needs love to want to be beautiful. I know how much men want to have a beautiful woman, but coming on too strong and being abusive are two surefire ways to scare away any self respecting SBW. While you might be tempted to offer to marry a SBW right away, this generally isn't a good idea. Unless you don't care if she thinks your trying to take advantage of her.

Also, just because a SBW likes you, be perfectly aware that she isn't perfect, and don't expect her to have a stellar career just because she is smart and beautiful. The most important job for a woman is her relationships, and she'll probably want to be a mom. And well, you should have your career in order if you want to prove to her that your relationship material. Because quite frankly, there's more to life than having married a hard woman who made it to the board room. I'm not saying that all women who are successful are hard, but there is a lot of messed up practices like sexual harassment to deal with and I think you should take it easy on women who have values.

While there is something to be said for having faith and a value system, too often, Christian households are just as prone to abuse as non Christian homes. This is an outrage and if you plan on marrying a smart beautiful woman don't think this is acceptable. There is nothing more likely to make a beautiful woman ugly than abusing her. And you might lose her as well.

I hope you don't assume that all beautiful women are only sex objects. They can be turned into such things by abuse. And often young girls who are abused turn into broken women, but this is a tragedy. And should not be a norm. Blaming the victim makes about as much sense as saying a refuge is responsible for a civil war. This world is broken and it chews up the weak. Please don't let your lust for a beautiful woman destroy her sense of self worth. I have had a hard time with my weight because of the way men treat me and I don't think I did anything to deserve it other than be born.

Please make an attempt to respect beautiful women for their attempts to be beautiful in a broken world.