Dating Tips: Just Say It! it May Just Change Your Life

I have been telling a number of my friends about this theory of mine for the last decade and I am glad it helped a few of them to get the love of their life.

This theory is for guys and gals alike who have a liking for the other person but are hesitant to tell the other party. If you ask these love-struck people, you will find that there are basically 2 main reasons of this hesitation. One is that they are fearful of the rejection. And secondly, they do not want to spoil the present friend-friend type of relationship.

My strongly recommended solution is to just tell the other party that you like/love him/her. Here comes my theory; there are only 3 possible outcomes when you do my recommendation.

1) The other party tells you that he or she also likes you. Both of you live happily ever after. Great ending.

2) The other party replies that he/she feels neutral towards you. This answer is a positive reply as if you are sincere and start your wooing, there is a very high chance you will get your guy/gal.

3) The other party tells you that he or she does not like you as a boyfriend/girlfriend. At this moment, you have to decide if you could still be friends with him or her. I would recommend that you remain friends, as good friends are hard to come by. Hopefully, both of you are still friends. The good thing that come out of this is that now, you know that the other party does not accept you as a boyfriend/girlfriend. Now, you do not need to waste so much time thinking and thinking of her and become depressed. Just put this feeling down and continue with your life. As what the Chinese says, short term pain is better than long term pain.

In brief, if you tell the other party of your feelings, you would clear your doubts as to whether he or she likes you, have a 2/3 chance of getting your love one, and if it does not turn out well, you can get on with your life and not waste time thinking of what may happen.

So for those people who are hesitant right now, just go up to the person you like/love and tell him or her your feelings. I guarantee you will not regret it....in the long run.