Dating Tips for Men : How to Get the Women You've Been Missing!

Bodie Stone
There are literally millions of guys out there starving for a hot date. Some of you have been dating sporadically and some not at all. This is ridiculous. All you need is a little sex education and your date card will be filled. Not only that, but you will be dating women that you thought were out of your league. It's all about the numbers. You don't have to be the best; you just have to appear better than most. You have to decrease your negative attributes while accentuating the positives. Follow my tips and you can't go wrong.

First, we have to address your appearance. You don't have to look like a Don Juan stud, but you want to look your best. Let's start at the top. You need to get a real hair cut. Don't go to the barber down the street or those chain salons at the local super store. Find yourself a reputable salon and get your new do. Don't be afraid to ask your stylist for suggestions. They are the experts and they can recommend the style or color that will compliment your features. This is going to set you back a little more than your average barber, but hot chicks date guys with style. On a side note, if you are balding don't try to hide it with a ball cap all the time. Some beautiful women love bald men, but not combovers. Now, let's talk skin. If you think you're a little pale, then you are. Go get an artificial tan. I don't care if it's with lights or spray, but get it done. Don't go to the extreme, but get some color in your cheeks. Next, there is personal hygiene. I know you think you're clean, but you have to be spotless to get sexy women. Wash everything from your hair to your toe nails. You must then start the real grooming. Trimming your nails sounds elementary, but too many guys miss the sex women because they have long dirty nails. As for hair, you have to be relentless. Pluck your eyebrow or even better, have your stylist wax that unibrow. Keep your facial hair tidy or remove it all together. Trim your ear & nose hair and yes, you do have to. Now, the pubic area is crucial. Hair traps moisture & odor and your crotch is one sweaty place. You don't have to shave it bald, but you do need to give it a crew cut. Remember, as the hair shrinks, other things appear larger and I'll leave it at that.

Style for the most part is based on clothing. If you want to date smoking hot ladies, you have to dress accordingly. This is going to sound so simple as to be absurd, but it works. Keep your eyes peeled for guys with beautiful women. Now, what are they wearing? If you want to be the man, emulate the man. Fashion can fluctuate depending on the scene so find what works in your area and wear it. If you can afford the name brands, then buy them. Otherwise, buy the look alike at a cheaper retailer. For example, in my area hot chicks often dig the casual outdoor look on guys. I can't afford to spend $120 for a fleece pullover made for Mt. Everest. I can however spend $30 for a near identical fleece at the local retail chain. Shoes are a different story. Hot women notice shoes. If you are going to make one expensive clothing purchase it should be a nice pair of shoes. When it comes to jewelry, less is more. You can get buy with a decent watch, but too much jewelry makes you look like a pimp. Necklaces, rings, earrings and bracelets are fine, but try a couple, not all them in the beginning. As you progress you will develop your own fashion persona, but until then keep it simple. Also, make sure that anything you wear is cleaned, pressed, and polished. This applies to clothing, jewelry, and your vehicle.

Now that you are clean you probably think you smell great, wrong! Scent is the key to making a real love connection. Looks will get you a conversation, but smell will close the deal with that gorgeous lady. Like jewelry, with cologne, less is more. A spray rubbed between the wrists and daubed behind the ears will get it done. Deodorant should be effective, but not overpowering. For that newly trimmed erogenous region, any of the new body deodorant sprays will keep it in racing form. Believe me, if things get that far your partner will be impressed. For the finishing touch, use a lightly scented or unscented body lotion. This might seem girly, but you need all the help you can get or you wouldn't be reading this.

Okay, you look like a brand new man and with that comes the single most important factor in landing hot dates, Confidence. You know you see hot chicks walking around with a$$holes all the time. Now you know why; they are drenched in confidence. If you want to be the man, act like you are the man. I am not telling you to be an arrogant boob, but you have to hold your head up high and look people in the eye. In short, act like you own the place. Don't be offensive, but don't be a wall flower either. You will be fine; just know in your heart that you are just as good as anyone else. Remember, you can fake it till you make it. If you act like a winner, beautiful women will see a winner.

Okay, you are ready to date beautiful women. You look great. You feel great. You now have to take the biggest, most feared step in landing hot babes. You have to ask them out. Look, nobody likes rejection. That's why so many guys aren't dating. You will ask out hot chicks and some will say no, but some will say yes. If you ask a sexy little vixen out and she says no, then you just move on to the next hottie. If you ask and she says okay, then it has all been worth it. I told you in the beginning that it's all about the numbers. The more women you ask the more yeses you will get. Don't worry about the rejections you get, but I will give you a tip to reduce those too. Start with women that may be a little less attractive than you would like. Get some easy dates out of the way. Every yes builds confidence and confidence leads to hot dates with beautiful women. Believe it or not, but after a few mediocre dates your social life will start to pop. Hey, you got the basic outline to get hot dates so go get'em tiger.

Published by Bodie Stone

I am 30 yrs. old, but increasing act like a teenager. It is my feeble attempt to remain forever young. I love action & adventure. I have worked everywhere from a medium security prison to the high seas.  View profile

  • Make yourself more attractive as a mate.
  • Ask and you shall receive.
Studies show that bars & the internet are the top two places to find a date outside of the workplace.

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  • Real Talk4/12/2010

    Dead broke is right!

  • Jack9/12/2009

    You ... are an idiot.

  • Dead Broke......7/26/2008

    And if you can get a Million Dollars.....You can have all the hot chicks you want..........Hot chicks love money....................

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