Dealing with Live-In Nannies

Emmemartin
Your home is a scared place for the family. It is where the whole clan bond, live together, and ultimately feel safe. Security is not a question since every occupant is family. However, there are instances when you have to let other people live in with you. An example of this is hiring a live-in nanny. Various changes have to be made to suit the family and the nanny's needs. If you are about to undergo this happening, here are a few tips to consider first:

1. Since the nanny would have to live in with you, you have to consider this as an addition to your budget. Aside from spending for the salary, you also have to prepare a decent room with ample facilities. If the house is only enough for the family members, it is imperative to build another one. You also have to provide for the nanny's daily meals, basic necessities and others. This then becomes an added burden to the family's expenses. That's why providing things that are of less value to the nanny becomes tempting to pursue. It is ok to provide a smaller room or unbranded clothing to them. Just make sure that it is fit for a normal human worker.

2. When you hire a nanny, a contract must be signed first. This includes the salary and days off from work. You have to respect this transaction and give her the proper time off even if you are living together. They are human beings in need of rest and relaxation too. Even if she decides to spend her day off in the house, avoid asking her for little errands. This is her only time for herself so respect that. Instead, boost her relaxation time by recommending parks and shopping areas she can visit. Show a supportive approach every time so as to promote an open and accommodative nanny-employer relationship.

3. Always stick to the work specifications written in the employment contract. Don't let her do household chores that are beyond the approved agreement. Being a nanny typically involves babysitting and few housekeeping but intensive cooking, cleaning and laundry require another employee. Being the employer and the superior party don't give you the right to command any nanny without due respect.

4. Nannies are the relational beings just like any normal person. Being confined in a household where she feels inferior is very unhealthy. Therefore, it is good if you allow her to have some telephone time once or twice a week. If she has some friends in the area, let her accept them as visitors too. Just be firm in setting limits your family's safety and privacy won't be compromised.

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