Dear Sophie

My boyfriend won't call me when he goes out with his friends. It makes me mad because I feel like I'm not important to him. Also, I really think it's because I'm worried that something bad happened to him. How should I tell him that I'm worried?

Concerned

Dear Concerned,

First of all, if he's only your boyfriend, you really should not complain unless you are engaged or married to him. He is still single and able to do whatever he wants. If he's always out with his friends and never spending time with you, then you probably are not as important to him as you would like him to be and you should find someone else. You are only fooling yourself. The truth is, you sound insecure and are only using your concern for him as an excuse to complain. If you are not satisfied with the attention you're currently getting, think of yourself and move on!

Sophie

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