Deciding to Hold a Child Back a Grade

One Step Back, and Three Jumps Forward

Linda Ann Nickerson
Many people naturally assume children will advance automatically from one school grade to the next, as each year ends. However, for many reasons, this may not be the best course for everyone. Academic, emotional, social, and other concerns may contribute to a child's readiness for promotion.

How can you determine whether your child is ready for a new academic grade level?

Ideally, a child will complete one school grade per year. However, each child is different, and special cases may require additional attention and evaluation.

Some children are even able to skip a grade during their school years, while others may need to repeat one. A child who is struggling academically may benefit from a repeated grade.

Teamwork Is Important

Parents, school staff and possibly counselors may determine as a team what is suitable for the child. Ultimately, the family makes the decision in the best interest of their own offspring.

Switching Schools?

Switching schools may present an ideal opportunity for holding a student back a grade, particularly if that child seems to be struggling academically or otherwise. Perhaps the new school curriculum is more challenging, or the classes move at a faster pace.

In communities with multiple schooling options, even moving a challenged child from one local public school to another may offer a chance for a comfortable transition. He or she will not be singled out by previous classmates, as they advance to a new class without him.

Moving from public school to private school may necessitate a repeat of a grade level. Private school academics are often accelerated, particularly where class sizes are smaller. Reduced staff-to-student ratios allow these institutions to move more quickly through lessons. New students may have considerable catching-up to do, if they enter at their given grade level.

International Variations

A family who relocates from one country to another will want to examine their academic options closely. Curriculum will differ dramatically, internationally, and the grade levels may not be directly equivalent. Foreign language challenges may also make academics more difficult.

Homeschooling Offers an Individual Pace

Home-schooled students may have completed a different level of curriculum than their in-school counterparts. Grade levels should be monitored, if home-schoolers are suddenly enrolled in a classroom setting.

Children Advance Individually

Children mature socially at varied speeds. Delayed social development may be a reason for holding a child back for a year.

If a child is diagnosed with significant special needs (such as a learning disability) during a given school year, then a repeated grade level may provide additional needed assistance.

A child who is being mainstreamed from special education into the traditional classroom may need to move back a grade.

Academic Testing Offers Insights

Generally, academic testing can indicate whether a child is enrolled in the appropriate grade level. These scores, combined with report cards and parent-teacher conferencing, can prove extremely helpful in the decision-making process.

Gaining an Advantage

Repeating a grade level does not need to be a source of shame. In fact, it may provide a child with an extra advantage that may jump-start his academic career. By repeating a grade, a challenged child may find he is ahead of his class for the very first time. What a feeling! The resulting confidence may provide a surge of success for a struggling student.

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  • A child who is struggling academically may benefit from a repeated grade.
  • Ultimately, the family makes the decision.
  • Repeating a grade level need not be a source of shame. It can be a real advantage!

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  • Super Duper Publications3/16/2010

    Check out this article for tips on
    Things to Consider and Questions to Ask when deciding whether to retain or promote your child:
    http://www.handyhandouts.com/viewHandout.aspx?lid=B98E1D3D&hh_number=253&nfp_title=Is+My+Child+Ready+to+Go+to+the+Next+Grade%3f

  • varcaacele10/23/2008

    viacc4tdo

  • Kassidy Emmerson7/19/2007

    At least it doesn't carry the stigma with it that it used to. "Holding back" a child, which is sometimes the best way to go, isn't the same as "failing" a grade.
    Still, a hard decision for a parent to make! :-)

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