Define Yourself and Then Find Your Fashion

You don't need to spend a lot of money to be fashionable. Many people think you have to spend gobs of money to look good. But just being self confidant and well mannered can make people like you better. Some people look good in certain colors. Others need certain cuts. Fashion really is about making the most of your assets. I look better in hot pink and bright brilliant colors. Others need a more muted palette. But no matter what looks best on you, remember to wear it with confidence and people will love you.

When you have dark hair and light skin, black can really look good on you. I love black. Its slimming and can make me look more dramatic. More fair haired people may look better in pastels. It just depends on your coloring.

Honestly, if you're a nice person, and don't wear too revealing clothing, people will be attracted to you for your sweetness. Sure you know you rock, but men marry nice girls. Some people are attracted to drama. Others like calm cool and collected. You want to attract the right person. Not a bunch of losers.

So I wouldn't like to wear really revealing clothing, because it attracts the wrong kind of attention. You need someone to like you for who you are. Not for putting out. Too many beautiful women get too sexy and have no self worth and wonder why men are only interested in one night stands. Really, men need an emotional investment. Sometimes it can go the way of just being friends, but its better than getting in bed with total strangers.

So before you invest in tons of clothing, figure out what your trying to say. Do you want to say, easy? Or worth a long term commitment? Sure its great to have people find you attractive, but maybe you need to find yourself attractive first. Find something that rocks about you. Don't let emotions overtake your eating habits, and exercise. Don't stay up late, and don't abuse drugs and alcohol and you'll look better.

Maybe what you need is to follow your heart rather than what everyone else says is cool. If you like raunchy sex, which I highly doubt, you'll probably go for the halter tops and bikinis as day wear. Personally, I like to dress like a lady. Sometimes a little mystery is a good thing.