Diary of a Fat Woman

Carol Roach
Previously published in Examiner

The following is a testimonial of an obese woman in Montreal. The pandemic medical condition is sweeping across North America as well as Montreal. New Research shows that young children who are obese will are at risk for diabetes and other medical conditions associated with obesity.

Obese Montrealers can seek help through dieticians, such programs as weight watchers and obesity clinics.

Obesity Therapists in Montréal

Weight Watchers in Montreal

Overeaters Anonymous in Montreal

Now for the Montreal testimonial

No is a two-letter word that sometimes can be so hard to say. It is hard for me as an obese person to say no to food. Medically I know that I am playing with fire, I am at risk for a heart attack or stroke. My arteries and veins can clog up with fatty deposits, (cholesterol) and obstruct the blood flow to and from the heart. The excess fat causes my heart to work harder and one day it just might give out from exhaustion.

My feet swell up sometimes so bad1 that they resemble balloons, completely shapeless and unattractive. I cannot remember the last time I actually saw that I had ankles. In the winter, I cannot leave the house because I cannot walk. I cannot stand up for more than five minutes without my back hurting me. I am tired all the time. I am unable to keep a job outside the house because of it.

One thing good about my condition is that it forced me to find a new career; one that I could do from home. I went back to my passion. I now write for a living now and I can do that from home.

Nevertheless, being overweight is neither healthy nor socially acceptable. Some people look at me with disgust. This is something I have had to face all my life. Most people cannot understand how anyone can be obese.

They say "just say no to food, what is the big deal?"

Unless you walk in the shoes of an obese person, you cannot begin to understand what the big deal really is. Food becomes our life.

To be continued

Published by Carol Roach

Carol Roach holds a masters in counselling psychology. She worked as a therapist at the Douglas Hospital in Montreal before becoming a professional writer.Carol is the author of the book Picking Up The Piece...  View profile

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  • Gayle Crabtree10/30/2011

    Thank you for putting personality behind this issue!

  • Teila Tankersley10/30/2011

    Very eye opening.

  • Han Van Meegerin10/27/2011

    Carol, I wish you luck in dealing with your condition. As one of your fans, I want you to be around for awhile.

  • Lori Gunn10/25/2011

    Saying no is difficult in most situations. I guess it is easier to find compromise. My good friend is a size 2 and she looks wonderful, but a lot of people resent her looking that way and say unkind things. She worked hard years ago to lose the weight and has a strict method to follow so it does not show back up. I will never see size 2 again, but know I have to lose some of these pounds that just like around so I do not lose my good health. It is true we should never criticize others unless we are in the same shoes. Good article.

  • Sandy James10/25/2011

    Very sad story.

  • Laura Cone10/24/2011

    super job

  • Dina Montgomery10/24/2011

    Great reporting... :o)

  • John Mario10/23/2011

    The article mentions swelling of the feet. My wife experiences swelling of the ankles. The heart doctor was concerned that it might be caused by congestive heart failure. But after a complete examination, he found that her lungs were clear.

  • John Mario10/23/2011

    As you well know, obesity is not solely caused by eating food.

    My wife has diabetes. She eats a lot of salads to control her diabetes. She consumes a lot fewer calories than me, yet she doesn't lose an ounce of weight. Why? Her metabolism and her body's tendency to retain water.

  • Michele Starkey10/23/2011

    We all have some kind of an addiction, cheers

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